Social Work; Essays on the Meeting Ground of Doctor and Social WorkerCabot, Richard C. (Richard Clarke)
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Social Work; Essays on the Meeting Ground of Doctor and Social Worker
Cabot, Richard C. (Richard Clarke)
Charities, Medical; Friendly visiting; Medical social work -- United States; Social service
It is astonishing how often people are relieved by knowing a truth
which we shrink from imparting. I recently examined at a Red Cross
Dispensary in Paris an old lady in face of whose troubles I was a little
daunted when I came to carrying out the principle of telling the truth
as I have long preached and tried to practise it. She had a chronic
asthma. She suffered a good deal from it both night and day, and I could
not see the slightest prospect that she would ever be any better,
because in people past middle life asthma is for all intents and
purposes an incurable disease. When I had finished examining this old
lady and faced my task of telling her the truth, I did not feel
comfortable about it at all. But I gave her the facts. The outcome was
striking. "Oh, yes," she said, "I rather thought that my asthma is
incurable. I did not expect that you could do anything to cure it. All I
wanted was to make sure that I had not got tuberculosis on top of it."
About this fear of tuberculosis she had said not a word to the
history-taker. It came to light quite unexpectedly. But when I assured
her that she had not got tuberculosis on top of her asthma, she seemed
quite contented and hobbled away very happily, puffing and blowing as
she went.
That illustrates the relief that comes to people from finding that a
deeper-concealed fear is groundless. Again and again I have pushed
myself up to the task of telling people what I knew they had to know,
and then found that instead of prostrating them I had relieved them of
torturing uncertainty.
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