Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.Astell, Mary
Philosophy
Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.
Astell, Mary
Marriage; Women -- Social conditions
As to the Female Reader, I hope she will allow I’ve endeavoured to do
her Justice; not betray’d her Cause as her Advocates usually do, under
Pretence of defending it. A Practice too mean for any to be guilty of
who have the least Sense of Honour, and who do any more than meerly
pretend to it. I think I have held the Balance even, and not being
conscious of Partiality, I ask no Pardon for it. To plead for the
Oppress’d, and to defend the Weak, seem’d to me a generous Undertaking;
for though it may be secure, ’tis not always Honourable, to run over to
the strongest Party. And if she infers from what has been said, that
Marriage is a very happy State for Men, if they think fit to make it so;
that they govern the World, they have Prescription on their Side; Women
are too weak to dispute it with them, therefore they, as all other
Governors, are most, if not only, accountable for what’s amiss; for
whether other Governments in their Original, were or were not confer’d
according to the Merit of the Person, yet certainly in this Case, if
Heaven has appointed the Man to govern, it has Qualified him for it: So
far I agree with her: But if she goes on to infer, that therefore, if a
Man has not these Qualifications, where is his Right? That if he
misemploys, he abuses it? And if he abuses, according to modern
Deduction, he forfeits it, I must leave her there. A peaceable Woman,
indeed, will not carry it so far, she will neither question her
Husband’s Right, nor his Fitness to govern, but how? Not as an absolute
Lord and Master, with an arbitrary and tyrannical Sway, but as Reason
governs and conducts a Man, by proposing what is just and fit. And the
Man who acts according to that Wisdom he assumes, who would have that
Superiority he pretends to, acknowledged just, will receive no Injury by
any thing that has been offered here. A Woman will value Him the more
who is so wise and good, when she discerns how much he excels the rest
of his noble Sex; the less he requires, the more will he merit that
Esteem and Deference, which those who are so forward to exact, seem
conscious they don’t deserve. So then the Man’s Prerogative is not at
all infring’d, whilst the Woman’s Privileges are secured; and if any
Woman think her self injur’d, she has a Remedy in reserve, which few Men
will envy, or endeavour to rob her of, the Exercise and Improvement of
her Vertue Here, and the Reward of it Hereafter.
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