In your apparel be modest, and endeavor to accommodate Nature, rather than to procure admiration; keep to the fashion of your equals. Associate yourself with men of good quality, if you esteem your own reputation; for 'tis better to be alone than in bad company. Speak not injurious words neither in jest nor in earnest; scoff at none, although they give occasion. Gaze not at the marks or blemishes of others, and ask not how they came. What you may speak in secret to your friend, deliver not before others. Nothing but harmony, honest industry, and frugality are necessary to make us a great people. First impressions are generally the most lasting. It is therefore absolutely necessary, if you mean to make any figure upon the stage, that you should take the first steps right. There is a destiny which has the control of our actions not to be resisted by the strongest efforts of Human Nature. Let your heart feel for the afflictions and distresses of everyone, and let your hand give in proportion to your purse; remembering always the widow's mite, but that it is not everyone who asketh that deserveth charity; all, however, are worthy the inquiry, or the deserving may suffer. I consider storms and victory under the direction of a wise Providence, who no doubt directs them for the best purposes, and to bring round the greatest degree of happiness to the greatest number. Happiness depends more upon the internal frame of a person's mind, than on the externals in the world. To constitute a dispute there must be two parties. To understand it well, both parties and all the circumstances must be fully heard; and to accommodate differences, temper and mutual forbearance are requisite. Idleness is disreputable under any circumstances; productive of no good, even when unaccompanied by vicious habits. It is not uncommon in prosperous gales to forget that adverse winds blow. Economy in all things is as commendable in the manager, as it is beneficial and desirable to the employer. It is unfortunate when men cannot or will not see danger at a distance; or seeing it, are undetermined in the means which are necessary to avert or keep it afar off. Every man who is in the vigor of life ought to serve his country in whatever line it requires, and he is fit for. Rise early, that by habit it may become familiar, agreeable, healthy, and profitable. It may, for a while, be irksome to do this, but that will wear off; and the practice will produce a rich harvest forever thereafter, whether in public or in private walks of life. SAID BY WASHINGTON To be prepared for war is one of the most effectual means of preserving peace. There is a rank due to the United States among nations which will be withheld, if not absolutely lost, by the reputation of weakness. The propitious smiles of Heaven can never be expected on a nation that disregards the eternal rules of order and right which Heaven itself has ordained.