Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that workChambers, Robert
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Spirit of Chambers's Journal : $b Original tales, essays, and sketches, selected from that work
Chambers, Robert
English literature -- Scottish authors
The husband’s duty must therefore be to establish in the mind of his
partner an entire reliance on his affection, and a thorough persuasion
that he is disposed to the full amount of his power to promote
her comfort. Let him not think it beneath him to take an interest
in her domestic arrangements: by showing that he does so, he will
make her sensible that her efforts to render home pleasing are not
unappreciated; her labour for that end will be redoubled, and yet
prove more light to her. As he must be abroad the greater part of the
day, let him not deprive her of his company in the hours of leisure
that business leaves him. A man cannot altogether seclude himself from
the world in the bosom of his family; neither can he always carry his
wife along with him: but he must not for a light reason allow himself
to be detained from her society. A woman’s hours are often lonely;
and after she has bestowed her whole cares for a day to set her house
in order, and anxiously awaits her husband’s return, in the hope of
enjoying a few hours of mutually endearing converse by the cheerful
hearth, if she have to watch every approaching footstep in vain, it
is a cruel disappointment. One of the greatest sins which the husband
can commit, is that of making a practice of staying out late at night,
which, though not reckoned among the usual catalogue of crimes against
social life, is one of those most worthy of reprobation. The mental
anguish endured by many excellent wives from this infamous practice,
no one can picture unless he have witnessed it. There, by the lonely
hearth—the fire sunk to a cinder and a mass of ashes—the candle verging
to its close in the socket—the dingy silent apartment strewed with the
toys and furniture of the children, sent hours since to bed—there, in
the midst of this domestic wilderness sits the drooping, desponding,
almost broken-hearted wife, counting the hours, and conning over
in her wearied mind the numbers of times she has been so deserted,
and foreseeing the still greater misery which awaits her by such a
course of profligacy in her husband. And for what, may we ask, has
the master of the household thus deserted his home?—the company of
hollow friends, idle acquaintances, perhaps drunkards or gamblers,
whose witless jocularity forms the temptation to abandon a good name,
fortune, worldly respectability, and self-esteem. None but the wife who
has endured trials of this nature can properly understand the horrors
resulting from such a life of folly and dissipation.
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