Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
As a child (and in a less degree still) she was very fond of
watching dog-fights. This spectacle produced strong sexual
feelings and usually orgasm, especially if much blood was shed
during the fight. Clean cuts and wounds greatly attract her,
whether on herself or a man. She has frequently slightly cut or
scratched herself "to see the blood," and likes to suck the
wound, thinking the taste "delicious." This produces strong
sexual feelings and often orgasm, especially if at the time she
thinks of some attractive man and imagines that she is sucking
his blood. The sight of injury to a woman only very slightly
affects her, and that, she thinks, only because of an involuntary
association of ideas. Nor has the sight of suffering in illness
any exciting effects, only that which is due to violence, and
when there is a visible cause for the suffering, such as cuts and
wounds. (Bruises, from the absence of blood, have only a slight
effect.) The excitement is intensified if she imagines that she
has herself inflicted the injury. She likes to imagine that the
man wished to rape her, and that she fought him in order to make
him more greatly value her favor, so wounding him.
Impersonal ideas of torture also excite her. She thinks Fox's
_Book of Martyrs_ "lovely," and the more horrible and bloody the
tortures described the greater is the sexual excitement produced.
The book excites her from the point of view of the torturer, not
that of the victim. She has frequently masturbated while reading
it.
So far as practicable she has sought to carry out these ideas in
her relations with her husband. She has several times bitten him
till the blood came and sucked the bite during coitus. She likes
to bite him enough to make him wince. The pleasure is greatly
heightened by thinking of various tortures, chiefly by cutting.
She likes to have her husband talk to her, and she to him, of all
the tortures they could inflict on each other. She has, however,
never actually tried to carry out these tortures. She would like
to, but dares not, as she is sure he could not endure them. She
has no desire for her husband to try them on her, although she
likes to hear him talk about it.
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