Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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Significant is Rousseau's account of the origin of his own
masochistic pleasure in whipping at the age of 8: "Mademoiselle
Lambercier showed toward me a mother's affection and also a
mother's authority, which she sometimes carried so far as to
inflict on us the usual punishment of children when we had
deserved it. For a long time she was content with the threat, and
that threat of a chastisement which for me was quite new seemed
very terrible; but after it had been executed I found the
experience less terrible than the expectation had been; and,
strangely enough, this punishment increased my affection for her
who had inflicted it. It needed all my affection and all my
natural gentleness to prevent me from seeking a renewal of the
same treatment by deserving it, for I had found in the pain and
even in the shame of it an element of sensuality which left more
desire than fear of receiving the experience again from the same
hand. It is true that, as in all this a precocious sexual element
was doubtless mixed, the same chastisement if inflicted by her
brother would not have seemed so pleasant." He goes on to say
that the punishment was inflicted a second time, but that that
time was the last, Mademoiselle Lambercier having apparently
noted the effects it produced, and, henceforth, instead of
sleeping in her room, he was placed in another room and treated
by her as a big boy. "Who would have believed," he adds, "that
this childish punishment, received at the age of 8 from the hand
of a young woman of 30, would have determined my tastes, my
desires, my passions, for the rest of my life?" He remarks that
this strange taste drove him almost to madness, but maintained
the purity of his morals, and the joys of love existed for him
chiefly in imagination. (J.J. Rousseau, _Les Confessions_, partie
i, livre i.) It will be seen how all the favoring conditions of
fear, shame, and precocious sexuality were here present in an
extremely sensitive child destined to become the greatest
emotional force of his century, and receptive to influences which
would have had no permanent effect on any ordinary child. (When,
as occasionally happens, the first sexual feelings are
experienced under the stimulation of whipping in normal children,
no permanent perversion necessarily follows; Moll mentions that
he knows such cases, _Zeitschrift für Pädagogie, Psychiatrie, und
Pathologie_, 1901.) It may be added that it is, perhaps, not
fanciful to see a certain inevitableness in the fact that on
Rousseau's highly sensitive and receptive temperament it was a
masochistic germ that fell and fructified, while on Régis's
subject, with his more impulsive ancestral antecedents, a
sadistic germ found favorable soil.
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