Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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"When I was about 8 or 9," a friend writes, "a servant-maid of
our family, who used to carry the candle out of my bedroom, often
drew down the bedclothes and inspected my organs. One night she
put the penis in her mouth. When I asked her why she did it her
answer was that 'sucking a boy's little dangle' cured her of
pains in her stomach. She said that she had done it to other
little boys, and declared that she liked doing it. This girl was
about 16; she had lately been 'converted.' Another maid in our
family used to kiss me warmly on the naked abdomen when I was a
small boy. But she never did more than that. I have heard of
various instances of servant-girls tampering with boys before
puberty, exciting the penis to premature erection by
manipulation, suction, and contact with their own parts." Such
overstimulation must necessarily in some cases have an injurious
influence on the boy's immature nervous system. Thus, Hutchinson
(_Archives of Surgery_, vol. iv, p. 200) describes a case of
amblyopia in a boy, developing after he had been placed to sleep
in a servant-girl's room.
Moll (_Konträre Sexualempfindung_, third edition, 1899, p. 325)
refers to the frequency with which servant-girls (between the
ages of 18 and 30) carry on sexual practices with young boys
(between 5 and 13) committed to their care. More than a century
earlier Tissot, in his famous work on onanism, referred to the
frequency with which servant-girls corrupt boys by teaching them
to masturbate; and still earlier, in England, the author of
_Onania_ gave many such cases. We may, indeed, go back to the
time of Rabelais, who (as Dr. Kiernan reminds me) represents the
governesses of Gargantua, when he was a child, as taking pleasure
in playing with his penis till it became wet, and joking with
each other about it. (_Gargantua_, book i, chapter ix.)
The prevalence of such manifestations among servant-girls
witnesses to their prevalence among lower-class girls generally.
In judging such acts, even when they seem to be very deliberate,
it is important to remember that at this age unreasoning instinct
plays a very large part in the manifestations of the sexual
impulse. This is clearly indicated by the phenomena observed in
the insane. Thus, as we have seen (page 214), Schröter has found
that, among girls of low social class under 20 years of age,
spontaneous periodical sexual manifestations at menstrual epochs
occurred in as large a proportion as 72 per cent. Among girls of
better social position these impulses are inhibited, or at all
events modified, by good taste or good feeling, the influences of
tradition or education; it is only to the latter that children
should be intrusted.
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