Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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These acute results are at the present day very often due to
premature ejaculation by nervous or neurasthenic husbands, the
rapidity with which detumescence is reached in the husband
allowing insufficient time for tumescence in the wife, who
consequently fails to reach the orgasm. This has of late been
frequently pointed out. Thus Kafemann (_Sexual-Probleme_, March,
1910, p. 194 et seq.) emphasizes the prevalence of sexual
incompetence in men. Ferenczi, of Budapest (_Zentralblatt für
Psychoanalyse_, 1910, ht. 1 and 2, p. 75), believes that the
combination of neurasthenic husbands with resultantly nervous
wives is extraordinarily common; even putting aside the
neurasthenic, he considers it may be said that the whole male sex
in relation to women suffer from precocious ejaculation. He adds
that it is often difficult to say whether the lack of harmony may
not be due to retarded orgasm in the woman. He regards the
influence of masturbation in early life as tending to quicken
orgasm in man, while when practised by the other sex it tends to
slow orgasm, and thus increases the disharmony. He holds,
however, that the chief cause lies in the education of women with
its emphasis on sexual repression; this works too well and the
result is that when the external impediments to the sexual
impulse are removed the impulse has become incapable of normal
action. Porosz (_British Medical Journal_, April 1, 1911) has
brought forward cases of serious nervous trouble in women which
have been dispersed when the sexual weakness and premature
ejaculation of the husband have been cured.
The true nature of the passivity of the female is revealed by the ease
with which it is thrown off, more especially when the male refuses to
accept his cue. Or, if we prefer to accept the analogy of a game, we may
say that in the play of courtship the first move belongs to the male, but
that, if he fails to play, it is then the female's turn to play.
Among many birds the males at mating time fall into a state of
sexual frenzy, but not the females. "I cannot call to mind a
single case," states an authority on birds (H.E. Howard,
_Zoölogist_, 1902, p. 146), "where I have seen anything
approaching frenzy in the female of any species while mating."
Another great authority on birds, a very patient and skillful
observer, Mr. Edmund Selous, remarks, however, in describing the
courting habits of the ruffs and reeves (_Machetes pugnax_) that,
notwithstanding the passivity of the females beforehand, their
movements during and after coitus show that they derive at least
as much pleasure as the males. (E. Selous, "Selection in Birds,"
_Zoölogist_, Feb. and May, 1907.)
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