Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
In connection with the late evolution of the sexual emotions in
women reference may be made to what is usually termed "old maid's
insanity," a condition not met with in men. In these cases, which
are not, indeed, common, single women who have led severely
strict and virtuous lives, devoting themselves to religious or
intellectual work, and carefully repressing the animal side of
their natures, at last, just before the climacteric, experience
an awakening of the erotic impulse; they fall in love with some
unfortunate man, often a clergyman, persecute him with their
attentions, and frequently suffer from the delusion that he
reciprocates their affections.
When once duly aroused, there cannot usually be any doubt concerning the
strength of the sexual impulse in normal and healthy women. There would,
however, appear to be a distinct difference between the sexes at this
point also. Before sexual union the male tends to be more ardent; after
sexual union it is the female who tends to be more ardent. The sexual
energy of women, under these circumstances, would seem to be the greater
on account of the long period during which it has been dormant.
Sinibaldus in the seventeenth century, in his _Geneanthropeia_,
argued that, though women are cold at first, and aroused with
more difficulty and greater slowness than men, the flame of
passion spreads in them the more afterward, just as iron is by
nature cold, but when heated gives a great degree of heat.
Similarly Mandeville said of women that "their passions are not
so easily raised nor so suddenly fixed upon any particular
object; but when this passion is once rooted in women it is much
stronger and more durable than in men, and rather increases than
diminishes by enjoying the person of the beloved." (_A Modest
Defence of Public Stews_, 1724, p. 34.) Burdach considered that
women only acquire the full enjoyment of their general strength
after marriage and pregnancy, while it is before marriage that
men have most vigor. Schopenhauer also said that a man's love
decreases with enjoyment, and a woman's increases. And Ellen Key
has remarked (_Love and Marriage_) that "where there is no
mixture of Southern blood it is a long time, sometimes indeed not
till years after marriage, that the senses of the Northern women
awake to consciousness."
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