Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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No intercourse with women till age of 19, though strong
homosexual feelings from 10 upward, associated with feminine
youths. These feelings were quite distinct from feelings of
affection and friendship for more virile youths. An attack of
gonorrhea at 21 was followed by an operation for circumcision,
which had beneficial effects, but did not prevent an attack of
syphilis at age of 23, caught at a guaranteed state establishment
in France. Intercourse almost always with prostitutes, on
prudential and worldly grounds, though what he approves would be
greater laxity between boys and girls, with proper safeguards
against undesired offspring. He is now happily married. He only
indulges in masturbation at times when intercourse is impossible
(e.g., childbirth). It is then practised once or twice a week in
the early morning; overnight it causes troubled sleep, brain
activity, and constipation. This seems ethically more desirable
unless the wife were to condone physical infidelity, which she
would not, and even then there might be risks of venereal
disease. His general health and working power are in all respects
excellent, as the venereal diseases were speedily and thoroughly
cured. Homosexual feeling has entirely disappeared since
marriage.
HISTORY XV.--G.D., English; aged 60. "My earliest essays in
juvenile vice were due not so much to unguarded as to unguided
ignorance. I slipped where my natural protectors suspected no
danger, and I fell because I had never been warned of the
treacherous nature of the ground. Before or soon after I was 7
years old, the example of an elder brother, who had lately begun
to go to school as a day-boy, initiated me into the mysteries of
masturbation, which seemed to me then as harmless as it was
fascinating; and the novel pleasure was almost daily indulged in,
after I had acquired sufficient dexterity to accomplish the act
within a reasonable time, without a twinge of conscience, either
in that brother's company or when alone. Decency demanded secrecy
in the gratification of what soon became an imperious desire,
and the preliminary operations included, almost from the first,
mutual _fellatio_ and approximation of the excited organs; but
similar privacy was very properly sought during the performance
of other bodily acts associated with those 'less honorable
members,' and it appeared to me quite as natural and right for us
to amuse ourselves together in that way as for a married couple
to hide their most intimate embraces from the observation of
others. Indeed, I went farther than that, and even came to regard
the absence of all shame between us as akin to the primeval
innocence which Adam and Eve exhibited before the Fall. I
believed for long that we two were specially privileged and
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