Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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correspondent continues, "that the cruelty is _unconscious_. A
woman just grows mad with the desire to squeeze or bite
something, with a complete unconsciousness of what result it will
produce in the victim. She is astonished when she sees the result
and will hardly believe she has done it." It is unnecessary to
accumulate evidence of a tendency which is sufficiently common to
be fairly well known, but one or two quotations may be presented
to show its wide distribution. In the _Kama Sutra_ we read: "If
she is very exalted, and if in the exaltation of her passionate
transports she begins a sort of combat, then she takes her lover
by the hair, draws his head to hers, kisses his lower lip, and
then in her delirium bites him all over his body, shutting her
eyes"; it is added that with the marks of such bites lovers can
remind each other of their affections, and that such love will
last for ages. In Japan the maiden of Ainu race feels the same
impulse. A.H. Savage Landor (_Alone with the Hairy Ainu_, 1893,
p. 140) says of an Ainu girl: "Loving and biting went together
with her. She could not do the one without the other. As we sat
on a stone in the twilight she began by gently biting my fingers
without hurting me, as affectionate dogs do to their masters. She
then bit my arm, then my shoulder, and when she had worked
herself up into a passion she put her arms around my neck and bit
my cheeks. It was undoubtedly a curious way of making love, and,
when I had been bitten all over, and was pretty tired of the new
sensation, we retired to our respective homes. Kissing,
apparently, was an unknown art to her."
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