Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6: Sex in Relation to SocietyEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6: Sex in Relation to Society
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
Tullia D'Aragona was clearly not a courtesan at heart. Perhaps
the most typical example of the Renaissance courtesan at her best
is furnished by Veronica Franco, born in 1546 at Venice, of
middle class family and in early life married to a doctor. Of her
also it has been said that, while by profession a prostitute, she
was by inclination a poet. But she appears to have been well
content with her profession, and never ashamed of it. Her life
and character have been studied by Arturo Graf, and more slightly
in a little book by Tassini. She was highly cultured, and knew
several languages; she also sang well and played on many
instruments. In one of her letters she advises a youth who was
madly in love with her that if he wishes to obtain her favors he
must leave off importuning her and devote himself tranquilly to
study. "You know well," she adds, "that all those who claim to be
able to gain my love, and who are extremely dear to me, are
strenuous in studious discipline.... If my fortune allowed it I
would spend all my time quietly in the academies of virtuous
men." The Diotimas and Aspasias of antiquity, as Graf comments,
would not have demanded so much of their lovers. In her poems it
is possible to trace some of her love histories, and she often
shows herself torn by jealousy at the thought that perhaps
another woman may approach her beloved. Once she fell in love
with an ecclesiastic, possibly a bishop, with whom she had no
relationships, and after a long absence, which healed her love,
she and he became sincere friends. Once she was visited by Henry
III of France, who took away her portrait, while on her part she
promised to dedicate a book to him; she so far fulfilled this as
to address some sonnets to him and a letter; "neither did the
King feel ashamed of his intimacy with the courtesan," remarks
Graf, "nor did she suspect that he would feel ashamed of it."
When Montaigne passed through Venice she sent him a little book
of hers, as we learn from his _Journal_, though they do not
appear to have met. Tintoret was one of her many distinguished
friends, and she was a strenuous advocate of the high qualities
of modern, as compared with ancient, art. Her friendships were
affectionate, and she even seems to have had various grand ladies
among her friends. She was, however, so far from being ashamed of
her profession of courtesan that in one of her poems she affirms
she has been taught by Apollo other arts besides those he is
usually regarded as teaching:
"Cosi dolce e gustevole divento,
Quando mi trovo con persona in letto
Da cui amata e gradita mi sento."
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