One palliative of these early terrors remains to be touched on, the
instinct of sheltering or refuge-taking. The first manifestations of
what is called the social nature of children are little more than the
reverse side of their timidity. A baby will cease crying at night on
hearing the familiar voice of mother or nurse because a vague sense of
human companionship does away with the misery of the black solitude. A
frightened child probably knows an ecstasy of bliss when folded in the
protective embrace of a mother’s arms. Even the most timid children
never have the full experience of terror so long as there is within
reach the secure base of all their reconnoitring excursions, the
mother’s skirts. Happy those little ones who have ever near them loving
arms within whose magic circle the oncoming of the cruel fit of terror
is instantly checked, giving place to a delicious calm.
How unhappy those children must be who, being fearsome by nature, lack
this refuge, who are left much alone to wrestle with their horrors as
best they may, and are rudely repulsed when they bear their
heart-quakings to others, I would not venture to say. Still less should
I care to suggest what is suffered by those unfortunates who find in
those about them not comfort, assurance, support in their fearsome
moments, but the worst source of their terrors. To be brutal to these
small sensitive organisms, to practise on their terrors, to take delight
in exciting the wild stare and wilder shriek of terror, this is perhaps
one of the strange things which make one believe in the old dogma that
the devil can enter into men and women. For here we seem to have to do
with a form of cruelty so exquisite, so contrary to the oldest of
instincts, that it is dishonouring to the savage and to the lower
animals to attempt to refer it to heredity.
To dwell on such things, however, would be to go back to a pessimistic
view of childhood. It is undeniable that children are exposed to
indescribable misery when they are delivered into the hands of a
consummately cruel guardian. Yet one may hope that this sort of person
is exceptional, something of which we can give no account save by saying
that now and again in sport nature produces a monster, as if to show
what she could do if she did not choose more wisely and benignly to work
within the limitations of type.
VII.
RAW MATERIAL OF MORALITY.
_Primitive Egoism._
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