Children, says the misopædist, are not only unfeeling where we look for
sympathy and kindness, they are positively unkind, their unkindness
amounting to cruelty. What we mean by the brute in the child is
emphatically this cruelty. By cruelty is here understood cold-blooded
infliction of pain. “Cet âge,” wrote La Fontaine of childhood, “est sans
pitié.” The idea that children, especially boys, are cruel in this sense
is, I think, a common one.
This cruelty will now and again show itself in relation to other
children. One of the trying situations of early life is to find oneself
supplanted by the arrival of a new baby. Children, I have reason to
think, are, in such circumstances, capable of coming shockingly near to
a feeling of hatred. I have heard of one little girl who was taken with
so violent an antipathy to a baby which she considered outrageously ugly
as to make attempts to smash its head, much as she would no doubt have
tried to destroy a doll which had become unsightly to her. The baby, it
is comforting to know, was not really hurt by this precocious explosion
of infanticidal impulse—perhaps the smashing was more than half a
"pretence"—and the little girl has since grown up to be a kind-hearted
woman.
Such cruel-looking handling of smaller infants is probably rare. More
common is the exhibition of the signs of cruelty in the child’s dealings
with animals. It is of this, indeed, that we mostly think when we speak
of a child’s cruelty.
At first nothing seems clearer than the evidence of malicious intention
in a child’s treatment of animals. The little girl M. when just a year
old would lift two kittens by the neck and try to stamp on them. The
little girl described by Miss Shinn would when two years old run up to a
dog and jerk his ear till he snapped at her, and on one occasion
resolutely thrust her hand into a bush to seize pussy, minding not the
scratches.[169] Do we not see in this mauling of animals, even when it
brings the child himself pain, evidences of a rooted determination to
plague, and of a fierce delight in plaguing?
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Footnote 169:
_Notes on the Development of a Child_, pt. ii., p. 149 f.
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The question of the innermost nature of human cruelty is too difficult a
one to be discussed here. I will only say that whatever the cruelty of
adults may be children’s so-called cruelty towards animals is very far
from being a pure delight in the sight of suffering. The torments to
which a child will subject a long-suffering cat are, I suspect, due not
to a clear intention to inflict pain, but to the childish impulse to
hold, possess, and completely dominate the pet animal. He feels he must
have the pet, no matter at what cost to himself: of the cost to his
victim he does not think. The stamping on the kittens was perhaps merely
a childish way of holding them fast. Such actions are a manifestation of
that odd mixture of sociability and love of power which makes up a
child’s attachment to the lower animals.
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