The same outpourings of affection are seen in the dealings of children
with their toy babies and animals. Allowing for occasional outbreaks of
temper and acts of violence, the child’s intercourse with his doll and
his toy ‘gee gee’ is a wonderful display of loving solicitude; a
solicitude which is at once tender and corrective and has the enduring
constancy of a maternal instinct. No one can watch the care given to a
doll, the wide-ranging efforts to provide for its comfort, to make it
look pretty, and to get it to behave nicely, and note the misery when it
is missing, without acknowledging that in this plaything humanised by
childish fancy, and brought by daily habit into the warmest intimacy of
daily companionship, we have the focal meeting-point of the tender
impulses of the child.
Lastly, the reader may be reminded that childish kindness and
pitifulness extend to what look to us still less deserving objects in
the inanimate world. The manifestations of pity for the falling leaves
and for the stones condemned to lie always in one place, referred to
above, show how quick childish feeling is to detect what is sad in the
look of things. Children have even been known to apply the commiserating
vocable ‘poor’ to a torn paper figure, and to a bent pin. It seems fair
to suppose that here, too, the more tender heart of the child saw
occasion for pity.
It is worth noting that childish sorrow at the sufferings of things is
sometimes so keen, that even artistic descriptions which contain a
‘cruel’ element are shunned. A little boy under four "is indignant
(writes his mother) at any picture where an animal suffers. He has even
turned against several of his favourite pictures—German Bilderbogen,
because they are ‘cruel,’ as the bear led home with a corkscrew in his
nose." The extreme manifestation of this shrinking from the
representation of animal or human suffering is dislike for ‘sad
stories’. The unsophisticated tender heart of the child can find no
pleasure in horrors which appear to be the supreme delight of many an
adult reader.
Here, however, it is evident, we verge on the confines of sentimental
pity. It is to be remarked that highly imaginative children shed most
tears over these fictitious sufferings. Children with more
matter-of-fact minds and a practical turn are not so affected. Thus a
mother writes of her two girls: ‘M. being the most imaginative is and
always has been much affected by sad stories, especially if read to her
with dramatic inflexions of voice. From two years old upwards these have
always affected her to tears, whilst P. who is really the most
tender-hearted and helpful, but has little imagination, never cries at
sad stories, and when four years old explained to me that she did not
mind them because she knew they didn’t really happen.’
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