Such examples of remorse are evidence of a child’s capability of
knowingly stating what is false. This is strikingly shown in Miss
Wiltshire’s two reminiscences; for she distinctly tells us that in the
case of her confident assertion about the imaginary snake with ring and
bell, she felt no remorse as she was not conscious of uttering a
lie.[189] But these sufferings of conscience point to something else, a
sense of awful wickedness, of having done violence to all that is right
and holy. How, it may be asked, does it happen that children feel thus
morally crushed after telling a lie?
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Footnote 189:
_Cf._ what Mrs. Fry says, _Uninitiated_ (‘A Discovery in Morals’).
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Here is a question that can only be answered when we have more material.
We know that among all childish offences lying is the one which is apt
to be specially branded by theological sanctions. The physical torments
with which the ‘lying tongue’ is threatened, may well beget terror in a
timid child’s heart. I think it likely, too, that the awfulness of lying
is thought of by children in its relation to the all-seeing God who,
though he cannot be lied to, knows when we lie. The inaudible palliative
words added to the lie may be an awkward child-device for putting the
speaker straight with the all-hearing God.
Further inquiry is, however, needed here. Do children contract a horror
of a lie when no religious terrors are introduced? Is there anything in
the workings of a child’s own mind which would lead him to feel after
his first lie as if the stable world were tumbling about his ears? Let
parents supply us with facts here.
Meanwhile I will venture to put forth a conjecture, and will gladly
withdraw it as soon as it is disproved.
So far as my inquiries have gone I do not find that children brought up
at home and kept from the contagion of bad example do uniformly develop
a lying propensity. Several mothers assure me that their children have
never seriously propounded an untruth. I can say the same about two
children who have been especially observed for the purpose.[190]
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Footnote 190:
Stanley Hall, when he speaks of certain forms of lying as prevalent
among children, is, as he expressly explains, speaking of children _at
school_, where the forces of contagion are in full swing.
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This being so, I distinctly challenge the assertion that lying is
instinctive in the sense that a child, even when brought up among
habitual truth tellers, shows an unlearned aptitude to say what he knows
to be false. A child’s quick imitativeness will, of course, lead him to
copy grown-up people’s untruths at a very early age.[191]
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Footnote 191:
I seem to detect possible openings for the play of imitation in many
of the indisputably conscious falsehoods reported by Perez, P.
Lombroso, and others.
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