So strong and deep-reaching is this antagonism to law and its restraints
apt to be that the childish longing to be ‘big’ is, I believe, grounded
on the expectation of liberty. To be big seems to the child more than
anything else to be rid of all this imposition of commands, to be able
to do what one likes without interference from others. This longing may
grow intense in the breast of a quite small child. “Do you know,” asked
a little fellow of four years, “what I shall do when I’m a big man? I’ll
go to a shop and buy a bun and pick out all the currants.” This funny
story is characteristic of the movements of young desire. The small
prohibition not to pick out the currants is one that may chafe to
soreness a child’s sensibility.
_On the Side of Law._
If, however, we look closer we shall find that this hostility is not the
whole, perhaps not the most fundamental part of the child’s attitude. It
is evident, to begin with, that a good deal of this early criticism of
parental government, so far from implying rejection of all rule, plainly
implies its acceptance. Some of the earliest and bitterest protests
against interference are directed against what looks to the child
irregular or opposed to law. He is allowed, for example, for some time
to use a pair of scissors as a plaything, and is then suddenly deprived
of it, his mother having now first discovered the unsuitability of the
plaything. In such a case the passionate outburst and the long bitter
protest attest the sense of injustice, the violation of custom and
unwritten law. Again, the keen resentful opposition of the child to the
look of anything like unfairness and partiality in parental government
shows that he has a jealous feeling of regard for the universality and
the inviolableness of law. Much, too, of the criticism dealt with above,
reveals a fundamental acknowledgment of law—at least for the purposes of
the argument. Thus the very attempt to establish an excuse, a
justification, may be said to be a tacit admission that if the action
_had been_ done as alleged it would have been naughty and deserving of
punishment. In truth the small person’s challengings of the _modus
operandi_ of his mother’s rule, just because they are often in a true
sense _ethical_, clearly start from the assumption of rules, and of the
distinction of right and wrong.
This of itself shows that there are in the child compliant as well as
non-compliant tendencies towards law and towards authority so far as
this is lawful. We may now pass to other parts of a child’s behaviour
which help to make more clear the existence of such law-abiding
impulses.
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