To admit, however, that children’s questions may now and again need this
sort of wholesome snubbing is far from saying that we ought to treat all
their questioning with a mild contempt. The little questioners flatter
us by attributing superior knowledge to us, and good manners should
compel us to treat their questions with some attention. And if now and
then they torment us with a string of random reckless questioning, in
how many cases, one wonders, are they not made to suffer, and that
wrongfully, by having perfectly serious questions rudely cast back on
their hands? The truth is that to understand and to answer children’s
questions is a considerable art, including both a large and deep
knowledge of things, and a quick sympathetic insight into the little
questioners’ minds, and few of us have at once the intellectual and the
moral excellences needed for an adequate treatment of them. It is one of
the tragi-comic features of human life that the ardent little explorer
looking out with wide-eyed wonder upon his new world should now and
again find as his first guide a nurse or even a mother who will resent
the majority of his questions as disturbing the luxurious mood of
indolence in which she chooses to pass her days. We can never know how
much valuable mental activity has been checked, how much hope and
courage cast down by this kind of treatment. Yet happily the questioning
impulse is not easily eradicated, and a child who has suffered at the
outset from this wholesale contempt may be fortunate enough to meet,
while the spirit of investigation is still upon him, one who knows and
who has the good nature and the patience to impart what he knows in
response to a child’s appeal.
IV.
PRODUCTS OF CHILD-THOUGHT.
_The Child’s Thoughts about Nature._
We have seen in the previous article how a child’s mind behaves when
brought face to face with the unknown. We will now examine some of the
more interesting results of this early thought-activity, what are known
as the characteristic ideas of children. There is no doubt, I think,
that children, by reflecting on what they see or otherwise experience
and what they are told by others, fashion their own ideas about nature,
death and the rest. This tendency, as pointed out above, discloses
itself to some extent in their questions about things. It has now to be
more fully studied in their sayings as a whole. The ideas thus formed
will probably prove to vary considerably in the case of different
children, yet to preserve throughout these variations a certain general
character.
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