England -- Social life and customs -- 20th century -- Fiction; Husband and wife -- Fiction; Siblings -- Fiction
And so, after much consultation among ourselves, and much searchings of
heart on the part of Annabel as to whether the Parish Nurse would
suffer in any way from this identification of her interests with those
of Shakspere, it was decided that _A Midsummer Night's Dream_ should be
performed in the garden of the Manor House at the end of July, just
before the time when some of our neighbours flitted to the seaside for
their children's holidays, and others, whose children were of a larger
growth, repaired to shoots in Scotland. The Loxleys came for a good
long time (longer, in fact, than Annabel considered necessary), in
order to assist in coaching the village infants in their parts. They
were good-looking, good-tempered young people, their looks and their
tempers being, in my humble opinion, superior to their form; but Fay
and Frank thoroughly enjoyed and entered into their high spirits and
youthful pranks. There was no harm in them, but they were rather too
theatrical for my provincial taste, and very much too theatrical for
Annabel's and Arthur's. They brought out a side of the twins that I
had never seen--that side which had been fostered by their mother and
aunt, and afterwards indulged by their father, and although it rejoiced
my heart to see my darling so happy and in such good spirits, I could
not altogether stifle a wish that her tastes and mine were rather more
on the same lines.
That, I think, is one of the disadvantages of marrying late in life: it
is so much less easy to adapt oneself than it was when one was young.
Fay, of course, was young enough to adapt herself to anything; but I
didn't feel it was playing the game to let her do so, unless I was
prepared to meet her half-way; and I was confronted by the horrible
fact that the half-way meeting-place is sometimes too long an excursion
for persons of advancing years. However sincerely we may wish to do
so, we cannot walk so far.
I remember once remarking upon this to my sister, with regret at my
loss of adaptability; but she saw otherwise, and said that one of the
comforts of middle life is that by that time you have found the right
groove and can stick to it, unswayed by any passing winds of doctrine
that may blow your way. But I cannot feel like this. All I know is
that I have found a rut and am unable to climb out of it; but that it
is the right rut or even a desirable rut I have very serious doubts.
I think that this increasing difficulty of altering ourselves as we
grow older applies to men more than to women, since women are far more
adaptable by nature than we are. But I very much doubt whether the
adaptability of the middle-aged woman goes far below the surface. I
feel sure that the bride who forgot her own people and her father's
house was a very young bride indeed.
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