Ten Years in Washington: or, Inside Life and Scenes in Our National Capital as a Woman Sees Them ... to Which Is Added a Full Account of the Life and Death of President James A. GarfieldClemmer, Mary
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Ten Years in Washington: or, Inside Life and Scenes in Our National Capital as a Woman Sees Them ... to Which Is Added a Full Account of the Life and Death of President James A. Garfield
Clemmer, Mary
Washington (D.C.) -- Description and travel; Washington (D.C.) -- History
Thus, in republican Washington, in glaring drawing-rooms, we are treated
to a study of female anatomy, which is appalling. Don’t jump to the
conclusion that I want every lady to go to a party in a stuff dress,
drawn up to her ears; nor that I am so prudish as to think no dress can
be modestly, as well as immodestly low. No matter how it be cut, the
_way_ in which a dress is worn is more impressive than the dress itself.
I have seen a young girl’s shoulders rise from her muslin frock as
unconsciously and as innocently as the lilies in the garden; and I have
come upon a wife and mother, in a public assembly, so dressed for
promiscuous gaze that I have involuntarily shut my eyes with shame.
I never saw Lydia Thompson; but from what I have heard of her, have come
to the conclusion that her attire is just as modest as that of many
ladies whom I meet at fashionable parties. They cast up their eyes in
horror at the name of poor Lydia Thompson. _They_ go to see Lydia
Thompson! No, indeed! How could their eyes endure the sight of that
dreadful woman? No less they themselves offer gratis, to a promiscuous
company, every evening, a sight, morally, quite as dreadful. The men,
who pay their money to Lydia Thompson and her _troupe_, know that their
dress and their burlesque, however questionable, make at once their
business and their livelihood. They cannot make the same excuse for
their wives, their sisters, and their sweethearts, if they see them
scarcely less modestly attired in some fashionable ball-room. Remember
this; if you ever find yourself in such a place, the best men in that
room, at heart, are not delighted with such displays. Being men, they
will look at whatever is presented to their gaze; more, many will
compliment and flatter the very woman, whose vanity at heart they pity
or despise; but it will always be with the mental reservation: “_My
wife_ should never dress like that!” “I don’t want to see my sister
dancing round dances for hours in the arms of a man whom even I cannot
think of without horror; and if —— dances with him again, I’ll not go to
another ‘German;’” said a young man to his mother, this very winter.
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