If the summer cottage to which the husband returns at night, is not the
most satisfactory arrangement for the mother, she must blame herself
or the civilization in which she lives. The sole argument in favor of
passing the summer at a hotel is that the wife and mother escapes
thereby the cares of housekeeping, too often so severe during the rest
of the year that the prospect of not being obliged to order dinner for
three months causes her to wake in the night and laugh hysterically.
Formality and conventional ceremony are the lurking enemies of our
American summer life, who threaten to deprive our mothers and daughters
of the rest and vacation from the tension, excitement, and worry
begotten by nine months of active domestic duties. Simplicity of living
ought to be the controlling warm-weather maxim of every household where
the woman at the head of the establishment does the housekeeping, as
nine thousand nine hundred and ninety-nine women out of ten thousand in
America do.
It may be argued that greater simplicity in living all the year round
would enable the wife and mother to do without a vacation. Possibly.
But unfortunately for her the trend of the tide is all the other way.
Besides, simplicity is such a difficult word to conjure with. Her
interests have become so varied that the wear and tear is quite as
likely to proceed from new mental strivings as from a multiplicity
of sheer domestic duties. At least there seems to be no immediate
prospect that she will be less tired in the spring, however exemplary
her intentions, and it therefore behooves her not to allow the wave of
increasing luxury to bear her on its crest through the summer and land
her in her town-house in October a physical and mental wreck.
The external attractiveness of the modern summer cottage, with its
pleasing angles and comely stains, is easily made an excuse for an
artistic interior and surroundings to match. But artistic beauty
in summer can readily be produced without elaboration, and at
comparatively slight cost, if we only choose to be content with simple
effects. The bewitching charm of the summer girl, if analyzed, proves
to be based on a few cents a yard and a happy knack of combining colors
and trifles. Why need we be solicitous to have all the paraphernalia
of winter-life--meals with many courses, a retinue of servants, wines,
festal attire, and splendid entertainments? While we rejoice that
the promiscuous comradeship of hotel life has largely given place at
Newport, Bar Harbor, Lenox, and our other fashionable watering-places
to the pleasant protection of the cottage home, is it not seriously
deplorable that simplicity is too often lost sight of? To be
comfortable is one thing, to be swathed in luxury or to be tortured by
ceremony all the time is another. It seems strange to many of us, who
cannot choose precisely what we will do and where we will go in summer,
that those who can so often select a mere repetition of mid-winter
social recreation.
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