“Of course,” continued Barbara, presently, “the best private schools
are in the East, and a very much larger percentage, both of girls and
boys, attends the public schools in the West than in the East. Indeed,
I am inclined to think that comparatively few people west of Chicago
do not send their children to public schools. But, on the other hand,
there are boarding-schools for girls all over the East which are mainly
supported by girls from the West, whose mothers wish to have them
finished. They go to the public schools at home until they are thirteen
or fourteen, and then are packed off to school for three or four years
in order to teach them how to move, and wear their hair, and spell, and
control their voices--for the proper modulation of the voice has at
last been recognized as a necessary attribute of the well-bred American
woman. As for the Eastern girl who is not sent to the public school,
she usually attends a private day-school in her native city, the
resources of which are supplemented by special instruction of various
kinds, in order to produce the same finished specimen. But it isn’t
the finished specimen who is really interesting from the educational
point of view to-day; that is, the conventional, cosmopolitan, finished
specimen such as is turned out with deportment and accomplishments from
the hands of the English governess, the French Mother Superior, or the
American private school-mistress.
“After making due allowance for the national point of view, I don’t see
very much difference in principle between the means adopted to finish
the young lady of society here and elsewhere. There are thousands of
daughters of well-to-do mothers in this country who are brought up
on the old aristocratic theory that a woman should study moderately
hard until she is eighteen, then look as pretty as she can, and devote
herself until she is married to having what is called on this side of
the Atlantic a good time. To be sure, in France the good time does not
come until after marriage, and there are other differences, but the
well-bred lady of social graces is the well-bred lady, whether it be
in London, Paris, Vienna, or New York, and a ball-room in one capital
is essentially the same as in all the others, unless it be that over
here the very young people are allowed to crowd out everybody else.
There are thousands of mothers who are content that this should be the
limit of their daughter’s experience, a reasonably good education and
perfect manners, four years of whirl, and then a husband, or no husband
and a conservative afternoon tea-drinking spinsterhood--and they are
thankful on the whole when their girls put their necks meekly beneath
the yoke of convention and do as past generations of women all over the
civilized world have done. For the reign of the unconventional society
young woman is over. She shocks now her own countrywoman even more than
foreigners; and though, like the buffalo, she is still extant, she is
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