This characteristic of our womanhood is a virtue up to a certain point.
The American woman has certainly impressed her theory that her sex
should cease to be merely pliant, credulous, and ignorantly complacent
so forcibly on the world that society everywhere has been affected
by it. Her desire to make the most of herself, and to participate
as completely as possible in the vital work of the world without
neglecting the duties allotted to her by the older civilizations,
is in the line of desirable evolution. But there is such a thing as
being superficial, which is far more to be dreaded than even nervous
prostration. Those absorbed in the earnest struggle of modern living
may perhaps justly claim that to work until one drops is a noble fault,
and that disregard of one’s own sensations and comfort is almost
indispensable in order to accomplish ever so little. But there is
nothing noble in superficiality; and it would seem that the constant
flitting from one interest to another, which so many American women
seem unable to avoid, must necessarily tend to prevent them from
knowing or doing anything thoroughly.
As regards the creature man, the critics of this country have been
accustomed to assert that he was so much absorbed in making money, or
in business, as our popular phrase is, that he had no time for anything
else. This accusation used to be extraordinarily true, and in certain
parts of the country it has not altogether ceased to be true; though
even there the persistent masculine dollar-hunter regards wistfully
and proudly the æsthetic propensities of the female members of his
family, and feels that his labors are sweetened thereby. This is a
very different attitude from the self-sufficiency of half a century
ago. The difficulty now is that our intelligent men, like our women,
are apt to attempt too much, inclined to crowd into each and every day
more sensations than they can assimilate. An Englishwoman, prominent
in educational matters, and intelligent withal, recently expressed her
surprise to my wife, Barbara, that the American gentleman existed.
She had been long familiar with the American woman as a charming,
if original, native product, but she had never heard of the American
gentleman--meaning thereby the alert, thoughtful man of high purposes
and good-breeding. “How many there are!” the Briton went on to say in
the enthusiasm of her surprise. Indeed there are. The men prominent in
the leading walks of life all over this country now compare favorably,
at least, with the best of other nations, unless it be that our intense
desire to know everything has rendered, or may render, us accomplished
rather than profound.
The _Use of Time_.
II.
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