Perhaps the most difficult side of one’s nature to provide for
adequately is the social side. It is easy enough to make a hermit of
one’s self and go nowhere; and it is easy enough to let one’s self
be sucked into the vortex of endless social recreation until one’s
sensations become akin to those of a highly varnished humming-top. I
am not quite sure which is the worse; but I am inclined to believe
that the hermit, especially if self-righteous, is more detestable in
that he is less altruistic. He may be a more superior person than the
gadfly of society, but ethics no longer sanctions self-cultivation
purely for the benefit of self. Every man and woman who seeks to play
an intelligent part in the world ought to manage to dine out and attend
other social functions every now and then, even if it be necessary
to bid for invitations. Most of us have more invitations than we
can possibly accept, and find the problem of entertaining and being
entertained an exceedingly perplexing one to solve from the standpoint
of time. But in spite of the social proclivities of most of us, there
are still many people who feel that they are fulfilling their complete
duty as members of society if they live lives of strict rectitude far
from the madding crowd of so-called society people, and never darken
the doors of anybody. It is said that it takes all sorts of people to
make up the world, but disciplinarians and spoil-sports of this sort
are so tiresome that they would not be missed were they and their
homilies to be translated prematurely to another sphere.
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