_July 7._—Breakfasting at Huntingdon from Kimbolton, after spending
just a week with the duke and duchess. It has been so pleasant and
agreeable that I am unhinged on quitting them. The duchess pleases
me as much or more than any woman I have met these many years. Her
character in every worldly respect is most amiable. There is a
native ease, simplicity, and _naïveté_ of character in her which
delights me; and when I consider the life of the Duchess of Gordon,
her mother, the great patroness of every dissipation, I am amazed at
this secluded young duchess, who never goes to London, loves a
retired life, and is quite contented on a fortune very moderate for
the rank of her husband. She gave me her whole history, from going
one summer for some weeks to drink goat’s whey on the mountains many
miles beyond Gordon Castle, and running up and down the hills
bare-footed, driving down the goats and milking them; and being
delighted with the place and the life, though no human being within
many miles except the family and an old woman of the solitary house.
This was the case of all the girls; she never went to school, and
laid in a fine stock of health, and with it a sweetness of temper
and simplicity of character which, joined with an excellent
understanding, contributed so much to form her as she is at present,
calculated to be a blessing to her husband. She loves him, and
behaves with a most exemplary and unexampled patience and mildness
under his connection with Mrs. ——. I like her greatly,[196] and wish
I could add that she was religious. She goes to church often, she
says, and brings her four lovely children up to attend it; but I see
she has no sense or feeling of real religion, which I spoke of
repeatedly, and earnestly recommended. The next time they come to
Culford they both promised to come and see me, and will do it I have
no doubt. The spectacle in this age of seeing a very plain table, a
plain unaffected way of living, and everything about them modest and
moderate in scale, very little company, and never at London, yet all
cheerfulness and content, even under the above circumstance, speaks
a good heart and an amiable temper, as much as such can be good with
the Almighty coming in for so poor a share of its attentions. I do
and will pray to God that He will give her His grace to change in
this respect, and then she will be a pattern for her sex.
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