Child development; Infant psychology; Motor ability in children
On the other hand, bright metal objects are apt in the course of their
gyrations to deal bad thumps to little heads and noses; so one must
compromise on rubber--uninteresting, but safe--and on such bone, metal
(perhaps aluminum), and unpainted wooden toys as can be trusted to give
only very mild thumps, such as a baby had better take now and then
rather than be deprived of all really interesting toys.
This is one of the many dilemmas in which the baby is lucky who has a
grandma, or whose mamma can spare time to associate with him a great
deal; for no end of things can be trusted in the little hands, that
ache for everything in sight, if only vigilant fingers hover close,
ready to ward gently off any dangerous movement. Sitting in one’s
lap at the table, too, the baby may push and pull at many things not
safe for him to lift; or he may be allowed to handle something safely
tethered with a string. Certainly the wider liberty of holding and
handling he can by any device be allowed, the better; the instinct is
very strong, and wholly healthy, and the thwarting of normal instincts
is not good for any one’s nerves or mind.
In sight, important changes were no longer to be looked for: except
possibly in the matter of color sense, the baby’s seeing had now
passed through all the stages of development, and needed only practice
and mental growth to become as perfect as it would ever be. She was
evidently still at work somewhat, especially in new places, in reducing
confused appearances to order; but so much of this work was already
done that more and more she could sit and enjoy the varied spectacle.
More than once she spent half an hour gazing thus out of the window
with quiet pleasure.
There were for the first time signs that she could distinguish between
the sounds of voices. She looked and listened one day in the middle of
the month, as if she noticed something unusual, when I was hoarse with
a cold. Late in the month, as I read to her mother while she nursed
the baby, singing softly to her (a frequent custom), the baby suddenly
raised her head and looked curiously at me, evidently for the first
time distinguishing the two voices as separate sounds.
Her mother and grandmother had been saying to her a great deal,
“Papa!” hoping to hasten her understanding of the word. This same day
she imitated the motion of the lips, and seemed to find the feeling
very funny, for she laughed, and laughed whenever she heard the sound
explosively uttered during the next fortnight; she stopped in the midst
of crying to laugh at it. Her amusement had not the faintest connection
with the meaning of the word; indeed, she chuckled aloud with even
more gayety when I ejaculated “poo-poo!” or “boo-boo!” instead. It was
something in the explosive labial sound that struck her as comical.
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