Child development; Infant psychology; Motor ability in children
Her increased power of communication was not the only way in which
her mind showed itself more wide awake to other people. A rather
uncomfortable phase of this development was timidity. In the first
week of the month, she was frightened by some one who came in suddenly
between her and her mother, in a strange house, and spoke abruptly,
in a deep, unfamiliar voice; and after that she often cried or became
uneasy when strange men took her, or came near her, especially if they
were abrupt. She drew distinct lines, according to some principle of
her own, and certain people were affably accepted at once, while
others, no more terrific that we could see, made the little lip quiver
every time they came near. This timidity toward people was not at all
deeply fixed in her temperament, and though it lasted all this month,
it was never very marked afterward.
Some indications of the dawn of affection also appeared now. The baby’s
desire to touch our faces with her mouth and hands seemed to have a
certain element of attachment in it. The touches were often soft and
caressing, and they were bestowed only on her especial friends, or on
one or two strangers that she had taken at once into notable favor.
Once she leaned out of her baby carriage, calling and reaching to me,
as if she wished to be taken; but when I came to her, she wanted only
to get hold of me, to put her hands and mouth softly on my face.
Up to about the middle of the month, in spite of her daily exercises
with her toe, the baby had not altogether annexed her legs to her
conscious self and brought them under her orders. She still had to
hold the foot forcibly with her hands all the time her toe was in
her mouth, or it would have kicked away from her as if it was none
of hers. It is likely, too, that she had scarcely any idea of those
parts of her body which she could not see and did not often touch.
Indeed, the psychologists tell us that we ourselves have a decidedly
inferior bodily consciousness in such parts--say between the shoulder
blades. Even her own head must have been mainly unknown territory to
the baby still, in spite of the curiosity she had felt about it the
month before. But now she discovered by a chance touch that she could
investigate it with her hands, and proceeded at once to do so, with a
serious face.
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