The Boy Travellers in the Far East, Part Fourth: Adventures of Two Youths in a Journey to Egypt and the Holy LandKnox, Thomas Wallace
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The Boy Travellers in the Far East, Part Fourth: Adventures of Two Youths in a Journey to Egypt and the Holy Land
Knox, Thomas Wallace
Egypt -- Description and travel -- Juvenile literature; Palestine -- Description and travel -- Juvenile literature
"Of course you want to know how the bride looked. She was close behind
the young girls, but I can't describe her appearance, as she walked
under a canopy of pink silk, supported on four poles, carried by as many
men. It was like a small tent, and opened in front; the other sides were
completely closed, so that our only view of the bride was just a glimpse
through the opening of the canopy. Even if we had more than a glimpse of
her, it would have done no good, as she was wrapped from head to foot in
a red cashmere shawl, and whether she was seventeen or seventy years old
we could not say. The guide said she had a pasteboard crown on her head,
and the shawl was hung over it so as to conceal her face and all the
jewellery she wore. Of course she could not see anything, and so a
couple of women were walking inside the canopy, and just behind her, to
tell her how to keep pace with the rest of the procession.
"There were a couple of musicians behind the canopy, and then came a
string of idle persons, just as we see a procession followed at home. We
watched them as long as they were in sight, and were told they would
spend several hours at the bath, where a feast had been ordered, and
possibly an entertainment by dancers and singers hired for the occasion.
Then they would go home to the house of the bride's parents, and on the
following day the bride would be carried by a similar procession to the
house of the bridegroom.
"Now we'll go back to the beginning, and see how marriages are arranged
in Egypt.
"The guide says such a thing as an 'old bachelor' in Egypt is never
heard of, as every man is expected to get married whether he wants to or
not. Matches are made here much easier than in America, as it is not at
all necessary for the parties to be acquainted, and consequently they
cannot have any objections to marrying each other. There are regular
marriage-brokers who arrange everything, and thus save a great deal of
trouble and perplexity.
"When a man wishes to marry he tells his mother, or some near female
relative; she goes directly to the relatives of any marriageable girls
she knows of, or perhaps she engages a _khatibeh_, or woman who makes a
business of negotiating marriages. The two go together to houses where
there are young girls to be married, and when they find one that suits
the mother's eye they begin talking business at once.
"They ask how much property the girl has, how old she is, and what she
can do, and then go away without any positive promise to come again. If
the young man does not like the account they bring the matter is
dropped, but if he is pleased with it he makes a present to the broker,
and sends her again to confer with the girl and her parents. Her parents
have the right to arrange the whole matter without consulting the girl,
unless she is over fifteen years of age; in the latter case she may
choose her husband for herself, but her parents have still a good deal
to say about it.
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