Another version is that when a daughter was born the father, if he
intended to keep her, would have her clothed in a garment of wool or
hair as an indication that later he intended to have her keep camels or
sheep in the desert. If, on the other hand, he intended to do away with
her, he would allow her to live until she was six years of age, and
then said to her mother:
“Perfume her and adorn her, that I may carry her to her mothers.”
This being done, he led her to a well or pit that had previously been
dug for that purpose, pushed her into it, and then, filling the pit,
levelled it with the rest of the ground. It does not seem that the
latter practice could have been other than rare.
Al Mostatraf is quoted by Sale as saying that these practices were
common throughout Arabia, and that the tribes of Koreish and Kendah
were particularly notorious in this respect. The members of the former
tribe were in the habit of burying their daughters alive in Mount Abu
Dalama, near Mecca.
Among the Pre-Islamitic Arabians, the people of Tamim were noted for
their addiction to this practice and claimed, in after years, that
it was brought about by the action of their chief, Qays, who was a
contemporary of the Prophet. According to this story, Moshamraj the
Yashkorite descended on the camp of Qays and carried off, among other
women, the daughter of the sister of Qays. This captive was assigned to
the son of Moshamraj, and when her uncle appeared to ransom her, she
declined to leave her new-found husband. Qays was so incensed over this
action that, on returning home, he is said to have killed all of his
daughters by burying them alive, and never thereafter allowed another
daughter to live.
During his absence some time later, his wife gave birth to a daughter,
and knowing the feeling of the father she sent the infant to some
relatives to have the child raised in secrecy. When Qays returned home
she told him that she had given birth to a dead child.
Years after, when the child had grown up, she came to visit her mother
and while the two were together they were discovered by Qays.
“I came in,” related Qays himself to Mohammed, “and saw the girl; her
mother had plaited her hair, and put rings in the side locks and strung
them with sea shells and put on a chain of cowries, and given her a
necklace of dried dates. I said:
“‘Who is this pretty girl?’ and her mother wept and said:
“‘She is your daughter’; and told me how she had saved her alive.
“So I waited until the mother ceased to be anxious about her; then I
led her out one day, dug a pit and laid her in it, she crying:
“‘Father, what are you doing with me?’
“Then I covered her up with the earth and still she cried:
“‘Father, are you going to bury me? Are you going to leave me alone
and go away?’ But I went on filling in the earth till I could hear her
cries no longer, and that is the only time that I felt any pity when I
buried a daughter.”[257]
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