The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
It is said of Rutherford that "such was his unwearied assiduity and
diligence, that he seemed to pray constantly, to preach constantly, to
catechise constantly, and to visit the sick, exhorting from house to house,
to teach as much in the schools, and spend as much time with the students
in fitting them for the ministry, as if he had been sequestered from all
the world, and yet withal, to write as much as if he had been constantly
shut up in his study." Such should be the industry of each Christian home.
Without it, temptation will beset the members. "A busy man is troubled with
but one devil, but the idle man with a thousand."
Establish the habit also of perseverance in well-doing. "Be steadfast,
immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord." "Be not weary in
well-doing." Let the strata of your home be made up of the immovable Rock.
He only that continueth unto the end shall be saved. Having done all,
stand! Let your motto be, _Perseverando vinces_. Form the habit of
contentment with your home and condition in life. "Godliness with
contentment is great gain." If your home is humble, and not adorned with
the embellishments and luxuries of life, yet it may be holy, and hence,
happy. Avoid all castle-building. Do not fancy a better home, and fall out
with the one you enjoy. Never permit the flimsy creations of a distorted
imagination to gain an ascendancy over your reason and faith. Live above
all sentimentalism and day-dreaming; and in all the feelings and conduct of
your household, submit to the guidance of a superintending Providence,
walking by faith and not by sight, assured that your present home is but
probationary and preparatory to a better home in heaven.
CHAPTER XVIII.
HOME-GOVERNMENT.
"Alas! for a thousand fathers, whose indulgent sloth
Hath emptied the vial of confusion over a thousand homes.
Alas! for the palaces and hovels, that might have been nurseries for
heaven,
By hot intestine broils blighted into schools for hell;
None knoweth his place, yet all refuse to serve,
None weareth the crown, yet all usurp the scepter;
The mother, heart-stricken years agone, hath dropped into an early grave;
The silent sisters long to leave a home they cannot love;
The brothers, casting off restraint, follow their wayward wills."
Home is a little commonwealth jointly governed by the parents. It involves
law. The mutual relation of parent and child implies authority on the one
hand, and obedience on the other. This is the principle of all government.
Home is the first form of society. As such it must have a government. Its
institution implies the prerogatives of the parent and the subordination
of the child. Without this there would be no order, no harmony, no
training for the state or the church; for--
"Society is a chain of obligations, and its links support each other;
The branch cannot but wither that is cut from the parent vine."
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