The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
Here, then, we have the extent of the parent's authority, and the spirit
and manner in which it should be exercised. His power is grafted on the
strength of another, and should not extend beyond it. Its exercise should
not run into despotism on the one hand, nor into indifferentism on the
other. According to the vagaries of some religious sentimentalists and
fanatics, it is supposed that religion supersedes the necessity of parental
government. They think that such authority runs counter to the spirit and
requisitions of the gospel. But this is asserted in the broad face of God's
Word. The promptings of such sentimentalism are to permit children to do as
they please, and to bring them up under the influence of domestic
libertinism. Honor thy father and thy mother, is a command which explodes
such a gaudy theory; and he who does not obey it, brutalizes human nature,
dishonors God, subverts the principles of constitutional society, throws
off allegiance to the prerogatives of a divinely constituted superior, and
overthrows both church and state. Hence the severe penalties attached, in
the Mosaic law, to disobedience of parental authority. "He that curseth his
father or mother, shall surely be put to death." "The eye that mocketh at
his father, and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley
shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it." And hence also that
affectionate obedience which Joseph yielded to his aged father, and that
profound veneration with which he kneeled before him to receive his dying
blessing.
2. Filial obedience is the correlative of parental authority. If parents
have authority, children must yield obedience to it. This is not only
necessary to home-government, but also to the proper formation of the
character of the child. It must be trained up under law and authority to
prepare it for citizenship in the state. This must be the obedience of
confidence and love. It does not imply the subordination of the slave.
As the father's authority is not that of the despot, so the obedience of
the child is not that of the servile, trembling subject. It is not
unnatural,--no infringement upon the rights and liberties of the child. His
subordination to the parent is the law of his liberty. He is not free
without it. The home in which filial obedience is not yielded to parental
authority is "a marvel of permitted chaos," and will soon become desolate,
a scene of anarchy and strife. The members live in a state of lawlessness,
destitute of reciprocated affection,--the parent unhonored, the father and
mother despised and cursed, and the child untrained, uncared for, lawless,
and unfit for the state or the church.
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