The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
But how much more important that they be united in their pilgrim walk to
eternity,--united In the Lord Jesus Christ, by a common life and faith and
hope! We believe that Christians commit a sin when they violate this law of
religious equality, and unite themselves in matrimony with those who pay no
regard to religion. Who can estimate the peril of that home in which one of
its members is walking in the narrow way to heaven, while the other one is
traveling in the broad road to perdition! Whom, think you, will the
children follow? Let the sad experience of a thousand homes respond. Let
the blighted hopes and the unrequited affections of the pious wife, reply.
Let those children whose infamy and wretchedness have broken the devout
mother's heart, or brought the gray hairs of the pious father down with
sorrow to the grave, speak forth the answer. It will show the importance of
the scripture rule before us, and will declare the sin of violating that
rule.
And does not, therefore, a terrible judgment accompany that indiscriminate
matrimonial union with the unbelieving world, of which so many Christians,
in the present day, are guilty? Parents encourage their pious children to
marry unbelievers, though they are well aware that such unholy mixtures are
expressly forbidden, and that spiritual harmony is essential to their
happiness. "She is at liberty to be married to whom she will, only in the
Lord!" Those who violate this cardinal law of marriage, must expect to
suffer the penalties attached to it. History is the record of these. The
disappointed hopes, and the miseries of unnumbered homes speak forth their
execution. This great scripture law has its foundation in the very nature
of marriage itself. If marriage involves the law of spiritual harmony; if,
in the language of the Roman law, it is "the union of a man and woman,
constituting an united habitual course of life, never to be separated;" if
it is a partnership of the whole life,--a mutual sharing in all rights,
human and divine; if they are one flesh,--one in all the elements of their
moral being, as Christ and His church are one; if it is a mystery of man's
being, antecedent to all human law; if, in a word, man and woman in
marriage, are no more twain, but one flesh; and if the oneness of our
nature is framed of the body, the soul, and the spirit, then is it not
plain that when two persons marry, who possess no spiritual fitness for, or
harmony with, each other, they violate the fundamental law of wedlock; and
their marriage cannot meet the scripture conception of matrimonial union or
oneness. There will be no adaptation of the whole nature for each other;
they will not appreciate the sacred mysteriousness of marriage; instead of
the moral and religious development of the spiritual nature, there will be
the evolution of selfishness and sensuality as the leading motives of
domestic life. We see, then, that the Christian cannot with impunity,
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