The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
The evil consequences of the violation of this law may be seen in the
history of Solomon,--i. Kings, chap. 11; also in the case mentioned in the
10th chap.; and in Nehemiah, chap. 13. Paul upholds this law when he
exhorts the Corinthians to marry "only in the Lord." Reason itself
advocates this law. The true Christian labors for heaven and walks in the
path of the just; the unbelieving labor for earth, mind only the things of
this world, and walk in the broad road to ruin. Can these now walk
together, live in harmony, when so widely different in spirit, in their
aims and pursuits? "What fellowship hath righteousness with
unrighteousness? What part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what
agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the
living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them; and I will be their
God, and they shall be my people. Wherefore come out from among them, and
be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will
receive you, and will be a father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and
daughters."
The primitive Christians developed this law in their families. They forbade
marriage with Jews, Pagans, Mohammedans, and ungodly persons. With them,
piety was the first desideratum in marriage. The sense of the Christian
church has ever been against religious inequality in marriage. It has
always been felt to be detrimental to personal piety and to the general
interests of Christianity. It limits and neutralizes the influence of the
church, brings overwhelming temptations to lukewarmness in family religion,
and is, in a word, in almost every instance, the fruitful cause of
spiritual declension wherever it is practiced.
Let me, then, exhort you to marry only in the Lord. Such an union will be
blessed. Daughter of Zion! marry such a man as will, like David, return to
bless his household. Son of the Christian home! marry no woman who has not
in her heart the casket of piety. Make this your standard; and your home
shall be a happy, as well as a holy home, and
"In the blissful vision, each shall share
As much of glory as his soul can bear!"
CHAPTER XXIV.
THE CHILDREN'S PATRIMONY.
"Give me enough, saith wisdom; for he feareth to ask for more;
And that by the sweat of my brow, addeth stout-hearted independence;
Give me enough, and not less; for want is leagued with the tempter;
Poverty shall make a man desperate, and hurry him ruthless into crime;
Give me enough, and not more, saving for the children of distress;
Wealth oftentimes killeth, where want but hindereth the budding."
The children's patrimony is a vital subject. It involves the great
question, what should Christian parents leave to their children as a true
inheritance from the Christian home? We shall return but a very brief and
general answer.
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