The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
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The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
But some may object to this position, and remind us that pious parents are
known to have ungodly children who died in their sins. They may refer us to
the case of Absalom, and to the sons of Eli. In reply we would state that
this is begging the question. It is here taken for granted that these pious
parents did fulfill the conditions attached to the above promises. This is
a mere assumption; for Absalom was not properly trained; and both he and
the sons of Levi, were ruined by the misguided fondness and extreme
indulgence of their parents. And thus also does the foolish partiality of
many pious parents prevent their fidelity to their children. We must not
think that all pious parents are faithful to their duty to their children.
The above objection, however, assumes this ground; and, therefore, it is
not valid. It is often said that the children of ministers and pious
parents are usually more wicked than other children. This is false. The
opposite is true. We admit, some have bad children; but it is the fault of
the parents; not because God does not fulfill His covenant promises to His
people. His people, in these instances, do not meet the conditions upon
which His promises are made absolute.
We must not suppose that because a divine promise exists detached from
expressed conditions, it will be fulfilled without the use of means. There
is a manifest compatibility between the absolute promises of God and the
use of the means in our power for their fulfillment. The promise to Paul in
the ship in which he was conveyed to Rome, that none of the passengers
should perish, was not incompatible with Paul's declaration, "except these
persons abide in the ship, ye cannot be saved." Neither were the efforts of
the mother of Moses to save him, incompatible with the absolute promise of
God that "this babe shall be saved, and be the deliverer of Israel." What
she did to preserve his life was accompanied with an active, confiding
faith in the divine promise concerning him. And thus should faith in God's
promises stimulate Christian parents to zealous activity in the use of all
those means which secure their fulfillment.
The Christian home should ever keep in lively remembrance the solemn
promises made by her to God. In marriage, in holy baptism, she has made
vows unto God, and he says to her, pay thy vows. "When thou shalt vow a vow
unto the Lord thy God, thou shalt not slack to pay it; for the Lord thy
God will surely require it of thee." These parental promises made to God
regard themselves and their children; and their faithful fulfillment brings
them within the glorious promise which God gave to Abraham; for, says Paul,
"If ye be Christ's, then are ye Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the
promise:" Gal. iii., 29.
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