The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.Philips, Samuel
Religion
The Christian Home: As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc.
Philips, Samuel
Family; Home; Marriage; Parent and child
"Hold the little hands in prayer, teach the weak knees their kneeling;
Let him see thee speaking to thy God; he will not forget it afterwards;
When old and gray will he feelingly remember a mother's tender piety,
And the touching recollection of her prayers shall arrest the strong man
in his sin!"
CHAPTER XVI.
HOME-EDUCATION.
SECTION I.
THE CHARACTER OF HOME EDUCATION.
"Scratch the green rind of a sapling, or wantonly twist it in the soil,
The scarred and crooked oak will tell of thee for centuries to come;
Wherefore, though the voice of instruction waiteth for the ear of reason,
Yet with his mother's milk the young child drinketh education."
We come now to consider one of the most important features of the Christian
home, viz., as a school for the education of character. This is important
because of its vital bearing upon the interests of home. The parent is not
only king and priest, but prophet in the family. It is the first school. We
there receive a training for good or for evil. There is not a word, nor an
emotion, nor an act, nor even a look there, which does not teach the child
something. Character is ever being framed and moulded there. Every habit
there formed, and every action there performed, imply a principle which
shall enter as an element into the future character of the child.
What is home-education? It is the physical, mental, moral, and religious
development of the child. To educate means to draw out as well as to instil
in. It means the evolution of our nature as well as the communication of
facts and principles to us. The home training does not, therefore, consist
of simple information, but is a nurture of body, mind and spirit. From this
we may infer the frequent mistakes of parents, in substituting mere
book-learning for a training up and nurture, dealing with their children as
if they had no faculties, and making the entire education of their children
mechanical and empirical. Home training involves the development of all
their faculties as a unit and in their living relation, causing the body to
move right, the mind to think right, the heart to feel right, and the soul
to love right; changing your children from creatures of mere impulse,
prejudice and passion, to thinking, loving and reasoning beings. To educate
them is to bring out their hidden powers, to form their character, and
prepare them for their station in life. Thus home-education means a drawing
out and also a bringing up,--a training for man, and a bringing up for God;
a training and nurture for the family, the state, and the church,--for
time and for eternity. These must be done together; they involve but one
process, and are conditioned by each other. We cannot separate a secular
from a religious education, neither can we separate a training from a
bringing up. While those faculties of the child which exist in a state of
mere involution, are being developed, its nature must be supplied with
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