The collected works of William Hazlitt, Vol. 11 (of 12)Hazlitt, William
Philosophy
The collected works of William Hazlitt, Vol. 11 (of 12)
Hazlitt, William
English essays -- 19th century
to our immediate relatives and friends, who from this intercommunity of
thoughts and feelings may more truly be said to be a part of ourselves
than from even the ties of blood. Moreover, a man must be employed more
usually in providing for his own wants and his own feelings than those
of others. In like manner he is employed in providing for the immediate
welfare of his family and connexions much more than in providing for the
welfare of those who are not bound by any positive ties. And we
accordingly find that the attention, time, and pains bestowed on these
several objects give him a proportionable degree of anxiety about, and
attachment to his own interest, and that of those connected with him;
but it would be absurd to conclude that his affections are therefore
circumscribed by a natural necessity within certain impassable limits,
either in the one case or the other. It should not be forgotten here
that this absurd opinion has been very commonly referred to the effects
of natural affection as it has been called, as well as of self-interest;
parental and filial affection being supposed to be originally implanted
in the mind by the ties of nature, and to move round the centre of
self-interest in an orbit of their own, within the circle of our
families and friends. This general connexion between the habitual
pursuit of any object and our interest in it, will account for the
well-known observation, that the affection of parents to children is the
strongest of all others, frequently overpowering self-love itself. This
fact does not seem easily reconcilable to the doctrine that the social
affections are all of them ultimately to be deduced from association, or
the reputed connexion of immediate selfish gratification with the idea
of some other person. If this were strictly the case we must feel the
strongest attachment to those from whom we had received, instead of
those to whom we had done, the greatest number of kindnesses, or where
the greatest quantity of actual enjoyment had been associated with an
indifferent idea. Junius has remarked that friendship is not conciliated
by the power of conferring benefits, but by the equality with which they
are received and may be returned.
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