The collected works of William Hazlitt, Vol. 12 (of 12)Hazlitt, William
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The collected works of William Hazlitt, Vol. 12 (of 12)
Hazlitt, William
English essays -- 19th century
could hardly hope to find, in his casual, awkward, unaccountable
intercourse with such men as Pitt or Dundas, amends for the loss of his
old friends, Fox and Sheridan, to whom he was knit not only by political
ties, but by old habitudes, lengthened recollections, and a variety of
common studies and pursuits. Pitt was a mere politician; Dundas, a mere
worldling. What would they care about him, and his ‘winged words’? _No
more of talk_ about the meetings at Sir Joshua’s—the _Noctes cœnæque
Deûm_; about the fine portraits of that great colourist; about Johnson
or Goldsmith, or Dunning or Barrè; or their early speeches; or the
trying times in the beginning of the American war; or the classic taste
and freeborn spirit of Greece and Rome;—
‘The beautiful was vanish’d, and return’d not.’
Perhaps, indeed, he would wish to forget most of these, as ungrateful
topics; but when a man seeks for repose in oblivion of himself, he had
better seek it, where he will soonest find it,—in the grave! Whatever
the talents, or the momentary coincidence of opinion of his new allies,
there would be a want of previous sympathy between them. Their notions
would not amalgamate, or they would not be sure that they did. Every
thing would require to be explained, to be reconciled. There would be
none of the freedom of habitual intimacy. Friendships, like the clothes
we wear, become the easier from custom. New friendships do not sit well
on old or middle age. Affection is a science, to which it is too late to
serve an apprenticeship after a certain period of life. This is the case
with all patched-up, conventional intimacies; but it is worse when they
are built on inveterate hostility and desertion from an opposite party,
where their naturally crude taste is embittered by jealousy and rankling
wounds. We think to exchange old friends and connections for new ones,
and to be received with an additional welcome for the sacrifice we have
made; but we gain nothing by it but the contempt of those whom we have
left, and the suspicions of those whom we have joined. By betraying a
cause, and turning our backs on a principle, we forfeit the esteem of
the honest, and do not inspire one particle of confidence or respect in
those who may profit by and pay us for our treachery.
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