The College, the Market, and the Court: or, Woman's relation to education, labor and lawDall, Caroline Wells Healey
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The College, the Market, and the Court: or, Woman's relation to education, labor and law
Dall, Caroline Wells Healey
Women -- Education; Women -- Employment; Women -- Legal status, laws, etc.
It seems to me, that the "narrow" church, against which so much is
intimated in our times, is nowhere so narrow as in its human
sympathies. Oh that our clergymen knew how many utterly _friendless_
souls sit before them clothed in "purple and fine linen"! It is not to
be taken for granted, that, because a woman has a home, a father and
mother, and a genial, social circle, she has a _friend_, or even a
counsellor. It is not the beggar-girl alone who needs a "Confessor"
within our Protestant churches. Many of the most refined, the most
noble, and the most wealthy, are hurried into unfit marriages, because
they dare not live alone, and think the superficial confidences of
common courtship only a prelude to something deeper which never comes.
Why should not the "Comforter" have come to our churches, with some
special significance, before this? If stout-hearted Luther could say,
"When I am assailed with heavy tribulations, I rush out among my pigs,
rather than remain alone by myself," why should any of us blush to
confess our need of help? Herein, it seems to me, lies the vital want
of the modern church. Here and there, the rare personal gifts of a
single pastor lessen the evil; but what we want, in every religious
circle, is a friend to whom we can go, without the smallest danger of
being suspected of impertinence or egotism, under the sanction of the
divine words, "Bear ye one another's burdens." The burdens of
temptation _must_ be borne alone; but the burdens of poverty,
sickness, and grief, should be shared in every Christian church,
without regard to the social condition of the sufferer. Oftentimes the
rich man is poorer than the pauper. I know all the objections that
will be raised. I _feel_, to this day, how I saw one clergyman shrink,
years ago, from a tale which he ought to have heard from one agonized
woman's lips; and how others, admirable in the usual pulpit and
pastoral charge, will think themselves unfit for this. Under such
circumstances, let a clergyman call upon those of his congregation who
are willing to become the friends of the rest, to meet in his study.
From the half-dozen who will have at once the _modesty_ and the
courage to come forward, let a man and a woman be chosen to act as a
"Committee of Comfort." This might be done with the utmost quietness;
the minister alone need know the names of those willing to serve; but
if it were an understood thing, that every church had such officers,
the blessing would be beyond belief.
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