Although this garrulity of advising is born with us, I confess that life
is rather a subject of wonder, than of didactics. So much fate, so much
irresistible dictation from temperament and unknown inspiration enters
into it, that we doubt we can say anything out of our own experience
whereby to help each other. All the professions are timid and expectant
agencies. The priest is glad if his prayers or his sermon meet the
condition of any soul; if of two, if of ten, ’tis a signal success. But
he walked to the church without any assurance that he knew the
distemper, or could heal it. The physician prescribes hesitatingly out
of his few resources, the same tonic or sedative to this new and
peculiar constitution, which he has applied with various success to a
hundred men before. If the patient mends, he is glad and surprised.
The lawyer advises the client, and tells his story to the jury, and
leaves it with them, and is as gay and as much relieved as the client,
if it turns out that he has a verdict. The judge weighs the arguments,
and puts a brave face on the matter, and, since there must be a
decision, decides as he can, and hopes he has done justice, and given
satisfaction to the community; but is only an advocate after all. And
so is all life a timid and unskilful spectator. We do what we must, and
call it by the best names. We like very well to be praised for our
action, but our conscience says, "Not unto us." ’Tis little we can do
for each other. We accompany the youth with sympathy, and manifold old
sayings of the wise, to the gate of the arena, but ’tis certain that not
by strength of ours, or of the old sayings, but only on strength of his
own, unknown to us or to any, he must stand or fall. That by which a
man conquers in any passage, is a profound secret to every other being
in the world, and it is only as he turns his back on us and on all men,
and draws on this most private wisdom, that any good can come to him.
What we have, therefore, to say of life, is rather description, or, if
you please, celebration, than available rules.
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