The Correspondence of Madame, Princess Palatine, Mother of the Regent; of Marie-Adélaïde de Savoie, Duchesse de Bourgogne; and of Madame de Maintenon, in Relation to Saint-CyrOrléans, Charlotte-Elisabeth, duchesse d'
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The Correspondence of Madame, Princess Palatine, Mother of the Regent; of Marie-Adélaïde de Savoie, Duchesse de Bourgogne; and of Madame de Maintenon, in Relation to Saint-Cyr
Orléans, Charlotte-Elisabeth, duchesse d'
France -- Court and courtiers; French letters; Maison royale de Saint-Louis (Saint-Cyr l'École, France)
Mme. de Maintenon, having married Mlle. de Normanville (who had stayed
with her some years after leaving Saint-Cyr) to M. le Président
Brunet de Chailly, did her the honour to be present at the wedding.
The next day she mentioned to the Dames de Saint Louis that M. l'Abbé
Brunet had made an excellent exhortation in marrying them, in which
he rebuked the over-delicate modesty of those who blamed priests for
opening their lips in church about a sacrament there administered,
which Jesus Christ has instituted, which Saint Paul declares to be
great and honourable; while at the same time their ears are not too
scrupulous to listen outside of the church to love-songs, and speeches
of questionable meaning. "This false delicacy is one of the blunders,"
she said, "that I do not wish to see you fall into, my dear daughters.
Nearly all nuns dare not utter the word 'marriage'; Saint Paul had
no such scruple, and speaks of it very openly. I have noticed this
weakness in you, and I should like to destroy it once for all."
"It is true," said Mme. de Jas, "that we usually pass over that
article in the Catechism; we consulted the Superior to know if we
should use it; we did not even mention it in the choir until you told
us we ought to speak of it as of all other matters in the Catechism,
when occasion offered."
"Do you not see, my dear daughters," resumed Mme. de Maintenon, "that
it is a notion quite unsustainable in a house like this that you
cannot venture to speak of a state which many of your young ladies
must enter, which is approved by the Church, which Jesus Christ
himself honoured by his presence? How will you make them capable of
properly fulfilling the duties of the several states to which God
calls them if you never speak of them; and (what is worse) if you let
them see the difficulty which you feel in speaking of such things?
There is certainly less modesty and propriety in such feelings than in
speaking seriously and in a Christian manner of a holy state which has
great obligations to meet. Fear only that the omissions your pupils
make through ignorance of the duties of that state may fall on you who
have failed to instruct them in it."
"Have the kindness, Madame," said Mme. de Jas, "to tell us a little in
detail what it is proper for us to say to them on that subject."
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