The Correspondence of Madame, Princess Palatine, Mother of the Regent; of Marie-Adélaïde de Savoie, Duchesse de Bourgogne; and of Madame de Maintenon, in Relation to Saint-CyrOrléans, Charlotte-Elisabeth, duchesse d'
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The Correspondence of Madame, Princess Palatine, Mother of the Regent; of Marie-Adélaïde de Savoie, Duchesse de Bourgogne; and of Madame de Maintenon, in Relation to Saint-Cyr
Orléans, Charlotte-Elisabeth, duchesse d'
France -- Court and courtiers; French letters; Maison royale de Saint-Louis (Saint-Cyr l'École, France)
"When I exhort you sometimes to endeavour to please, I mean that it
shall be by good conduct, and not by fine clothes; sorrow to those who
seek to distinguish themselves in that way! If they are not sensitive
to the distress of offending God, a love of their own honour should
put them above this foible; for the world turns to ridicule those in
whom it sees the desire to appear beautiful, especially when they
are not so really. Those who have beauty and seem to disregard it
are, on the contrary, much esteemed. I wish," added Madame, sighing,
"I had done as much for God as I have for the world to preserve my
reputation. In my youth I persisted, in the midst of the highest
society, in wearing nothing but simple serge, at a period when no
one wore it; I was more singular in my dress than a young lady of
Saint-Cyr would be now in the midst of the Court." Mme. de Champigny
asked her if it was from fear of pleasing that she dressed so
modestly. "I was not happy enough," she replied, "to act in that way
from piety; I did it from reason and for the sake of my reputation.
I had not means enough to equal others in the magnificence of their
clothing; so I preferred to throw myself into the other extreme and
prove that I was above all desire to make a show by apparel and
adornment, rather than let it be thought I snatched at what I could,
and did my best to equal them. I could not tell you what esteem such
conduct won me; people never tired of admiring a pretty young woman
who had the courage, in the midst of society, to keep to such modest
apparel; that is just what it was; but there was nothing vulgar or
repulsive about it; if the stuff itself was simple, the gown was
well-fitting and very ample, the linen was white and fine, nothing was
shabby. I made more of an appearance in that way than if I had worn a
gown of faded silk, like most of the poor young ladies who try to be
in the fashion and who have not the means to pay for it.
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