Crime -- Great Britain; Criminal anthropology; Punishment -- Great Britain
Hardly ever does such a case as the above occur but what there are letters
to the newspapers demanding that the father of the infant should be placed
in the dock with the mother. The mother is not there for begetting a
child, but for killing it, and the former act is not yet punishable by
law. The general opinion seems to be that men are continually seducing
women, and I am not in a position to say whether it is true or not.
Judging from books, it forms the subject of many stories, but I am here
only writing of that small portion of the world which has come under my
own observation, and in my experience it is grotesquely untrue. I have
heard the woman's statement in the great majority of cases of infanticide
in Scotland during the last sixteen years, and I can recall few in which
she made any complaint against the father of the child, although I sought
for it. In some cases I was told that the father had not been informed of
the woman's condition, although she knew where to find him; and that he
had been kept in ignorance because she did not want to marry him. In the
other cases the conception seemed to be the result of intimacy that was
temporary and long past. I am far from suggesting that there are no bad
men who lead girls astray; what I say is that in this class of case these
are not the girls who appear as criminals.
The fact is that among a certain class of lads and girls there is a degree
of looseness of behaviour that is in striking contrast with the officially
recognised code of morals. They take risks with a light heart, and the
woman pays; not always because the man shirks, but because any
consequence of their conduct is entailed on her by her sex. The girl knows
this as well as the lad, but neither of them considers consequences at the
time. An acquaintanceship begun innocently enough may insensibly and by
degrees become something more, not as the result of consideration, but
quite independent of anything in the way of thought. If consequences were
certain it might be different. It is difficult to apportion blame and it
is not very profitable to try; but it is quite certain that the woman
leads the man as much as he leads her to misconduct. Child murder is no
necessary consequence of his act, and there is no sense in assuming that
he knew the girl's condition and deserted her, when the fact can easily be
ascertained.
It would be a great mistake to suppose that girls who do not preserve
their chastity are necessarily bad. It is largely a question of manners
and customs. They would quite readily admit that it is wrong to be
unchaste, as many an untruthful person will admit it is wrong to lie; but
they do not seem to suffer in self-respect, nor greatly in the esteem of
others, if they yield themselves to the lad who is their sweetheart for
the time. Their conduct may be suspected; but in the absence of proof, and
if decency is observed, their morals are taken for granted.
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