Crime -- Great Britain; Criminal anthropology; Punishment -- Great Britain
Boys get the name of being bad when they are intractable, but bad boys are
fewer than bad men. There are too many people who are driven to assume
that they know what is best for the boy--or the man--and that without
making any attempt to understand those for whom they prescribe. When a boy
rebels against the line of action laid down for him it is taken as
evidence of his wickedness, though it may only show his good sense. He may
be doing the wrong thing with a purpose more reasonable than that of his
mentor, but he is likely to find that his intention will meet with no
sympathetic consideration even if he reveals it, and his action will meet
with punishment if he owns it. He is encouraged to lie in the hope of
pleasing his master, and when he is found out his iniquity is magnified.
Boys are far more given to the attempt to find the point of view of those
who are in authority over them than grown-up people are to find the
standpoint of the boy; and children will often show a deeper knowledge of
their parents than the parents have of them. If instead of assuming
knowledge and showing ignorance parents would try to understand, there
would be less disposition to rule the young by general prohibitions and a
freer hand given to them in the choice of their pursuits. Left alone, the
child will show its bent; it is not for the parent to thwart its
aptitudes, but to direct them into useful channels. Many are made
miserable by being set to books, and others are made equally wretched by
physical drill. Every year brings forth its own fad. The adult may keep
free from its tyranny to some extent, but let it find a place in some code
or other and every juvenile runs a grave risk of being subjected to it,
because someone in authority who knows nothing about him or his needs has
so ordered it.
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