Wedlock is becoming more sacred. More and more the people are growing
into a responsiveness to the sacredness of the marriage relation. The
husband has increased in knowledge regarding his duty to his wife; the
wife sees better her relation to her husband; the parents more clearly
perceive what is possible and proper with reference to their children;
and, therefore, we can claim thousands of homes which are sources of
refinement, of love, and of purest pleasure. Music is brought in,
and in many homes the family choir contributes to the enjoyment of
children and parents, whose hearts feast upon mutual, sweet affection.
Not long ago the writer had the pleasure of receiving the hospitality
of a family in which such a choir existed. Each member had his place
somewhere on the staff; either he was in the tenor, or in the alto,
or in the soprano, or in the bass. Mother, father and children
delightfully partook of the feast of song. Their Scripture lesson was
not a long, disjointed chapter, but a single thought, namely: “The
wisdom that is from above.” Its qualities were considered--they were:
(1) Pure; (2) peaceable; (3) gentle; (4) approachable; (5) merciful;
(6) fruitful of good works; (7) impartial; and (8) honest. This lesson
was in a scheme on the blackboard, kept in the home for such purposes,
thus:
{ 1. Purity.
{ 2. Peaceableness.
{ 3. Gentleness.
Heavenly Wisdom, { 4. Approachableness.
Its Qualities. { 5. Mercy.
{ 6. Fruitfulness in good works.
{ 7. Impartiality.
{ 8. Honesty.
This plan gave opportunity to discuss in a few words each designated
quality. Each person large enough to take part was encouraged to do so.
One part of the evening hour was spent in amusing literary games, like
the following:
A word was suggested, and so many minutes were allowed to elapse,
during which time each member of the family sought to make the greatest
number of words out of the letters composing the word suggested. At the
close of this allotted time, spelling was compared, and the difference
as to the number of words made by each was noted. The exercise was
pleasant, exciting and profitable. The writer mused: “This is so much
better than gossip, unsociableness, sullen silence, and quarreling.”
From the word _abatement_, for example, came the words: At, mat, bat,
bet, tab, mate, am, an, ant, tent, beat, abate, Abe. At other times
problems in mathematics furnished the wrestling point; then points in
geography and history were entertained. “Name as many cities as you can
containing so many thousand inhabitants, and tell where they are,” was
proposed. Thus an hour or so of the early evening was profitably passed
away in shunning evil and gathering knowledge for good.
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