The Dabistán, or School of manners, Volume 2 (of 3): translated from the original Persian, with notes and illustrations
Religion
The Dabistán, or School of manners, Volume 2 (of 3): translated from the original Persian, with notes and illustrations
Iran -- Religion; Religions
When the husband is on a journey, the wife is not to remain alone in
the house, but is to repair to the dwelling of her parents, brethren,
or relations; and if, on her husband’s death, she become not a
_Sattee_, that is, burn herself with the deceased, she is then to
reside with his relations, devoting herself to rigid abstinence and
the worship of the Almighty. They say that when a woman becomes a
_Sattee_, the Almighty pardons all the sins committed by the wife and
husband, and that they remain a long time in paradise:[110] nay, if
the husband were in the infernal regions, the wife by this means draws
him from thence and takes him to paradise; just as the serpent-catcher
charms the serpent out of his hole. Moreover the Sattee, in a future
birth, returns not to the female sex; but should she reassume the
human nature, she appears as a man; but she who becomes not a Sattee,
and passes her life in widowhood, is never emancipated from the female
state. It is therefore the duty of every woman, excepting one that is
pregnant, to enter into the blazing fire along with her deceased
husband; a Brahman’s wife in particular is to devote herself in the
same fire with her husband; but others are allowed to perform the rite
in a separate place. It is however criminal to force the woman into
the fire, and equally so to prevent her who voluntarily devotes
herself.[111]
The enlightened doctors say, that by a woman’s becoming a Sattee is
meant that, on her husband’s decease, she should consume in the fire
along with him all her desires, and thus die before the period
assigned by nature; as in metaphysical language woman signifies
“passion,” or in other words, she is to cast all her passions into the
fire; but not throw herself into it along with the deceased, which is
far from being praiseworthy. A respectable woman must not from vanity
expose herself to the gaze of a stranger, but she is to wear a dress
which will completely cover her to the sole of the foot.
It is to be noted, that the son of a Brahman by a Chattri female is
not of the father’s caste, but a superior Chattri. It is moreover laid
down as a rule that a Brahman, on becoming a Brahmachárí, should
regularly worship the fire, which fire he is to discontinue at the
time of the marriage contract; but on that occasion he is bound to
light another fire and to recite the prescribed prayers, so that it
may be as a witness of the compact entered into between husband and
wife: also, after the celebration of the marriage, they are to repeat
the prayers prescribed at the time of lighting the fire which they are
ever after to worship daily.
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