The Days of My Life: An AutobiographyOliphant, Mrs. (Margaret)
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The Days of My Life: An Autobiography
Oliphant, Mrs. (Margaret)
Oliphant, Mrs. (Margaret), 1828-1897
"Very well, you have chosen each other," said my father gravely; "and
now you are about to begin your life. I am no dealer in good advice or
moral maxims. I only bid you remember that it is of your own free will
you bind yourselves in this eternal contract. This union, on which you
are entering, has a beginning, but no end. Its effects are everlasting;
you can never deliver yourself from its influences, its results. On the
very heart and soul of each of you will be the bonds of your marriage;
and neither separation, nor change, nor death, can obliterate the mark
they will make. I do not speak to discourage you. I only bid you think
of the life before you, and remember that you pursue it together of your
own free choice."
"We do not need that you should use such solemn words; they are not for
us, father," said Harry, advancing to my side, and drawing my hand
within his arm. He was afraid that I could not bear this, when he saw me
drooping and leaning on the chair from which I had just risen. He did
not know what a spirit of defiance these words roused in me. "Hester
trusts me and does not fear that I will make her life wretched; and, as
for me, my happiness is secure when I claim the right thus to stand by
her, and call her mine. There are no dark prognostics in our lot--think
not so. We will fear God and love each other; and I desire to feel the
bonds of my marriage in my very soul and heart. I do not care to have a
thought that is not hers--not a wish that my wife will not share with
me. Say gentler words to us, father! Bless us as you bless her in your
heart. She is a young, tender, delicate woman. She trembles already; but
you will not speak only those words which make her tremble more?"
My father stood by himself, stooping slightly, leaning his hands upon
the table before him, and looking at us. Harry's firm voice shook a
little as he ended; his eyes were glistening, and there was a noble
tender humility about his whole look and attitude, which was a very
great and strange contrast to the cold, self-possessed man before him. I
saw that my father was struck by it. I saw that the absence of any
thought for himself--that his care and regard for me moved with a
strange wonder my father's unaccustomed heart. The young man's generous
life and love, the very strength of all the youthful modest power of
which he would make no boast--his entire absence of offence, yet firm
and quiet assertion of what was due to our young expectations and hopes,
and perhaps the way in which we stood together, my arm in his, leaning
upon him, impressed my father. He looked at us long, with a steady, full
look; and then he spoke.
"You are right--it does not become me to bode evil to my own child, nor
to her bridegroom. God bless you! I say the words heartily; and now
leave me, I am weary, and will call you if I need you, Hester! I am not
ill, do not fear for me."
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