The Deipnosophists; or, Banquet of the Learned of Athenæus, Vol. 3 (of 3)Athenaeus, of Naucratis
Philosophy
The Deipnosophists; or, Banquet of the Learned of Athenæus, Vol. 3 (of 3)
Athenaeus, of Naucratis
Civilization, Greco-Roman; Dinners and dining -- Greece; Greece -- Social life and customs; Homosexuality -- Greece
Receive these first-fruits of my poetry,
Given you as a pledge; and as an omen
Of happy fortune I send first to you
This offering of the Graces, deeply studied,—
Take it, requiting me with tuneful verse,
Fit ornament of feasts, and emblem of your happiness.
You ask, then, why, if the garlands of men who have been crowned are
pulled to pieces, they are said to be in love. "Is it, since love takes
away the strict regularity of manners in the case of lovers, that on
this account they think the loss of a conspicuous ornament, a sort
of beacon (as Clearchus says, in the first book of his Art of Love)
and signal, that they to whom this has happened have lost the strict
decorum of their manners? Or do men interpret this circumstance also by
divination, as they do many other things? For the ornament of a crown,
as there is nothing lasting in it, is a sort of emblem of a passion
which does not endure, but assumes a specious appearance for a while:
and such a passion is love. For no people are more careful to study
appearance than those who are in love. Unless, perhaps, nature, as a
sort of god, administering everything with justice and equity, thinks
that lovers ought not to be crowned till they have subdued their love;
that is to say, till, having prevailed upon the object of their love,
they are released from their desire. And accordingly, the loss of their
crown we make the token of their being still occupied in the fields of
love. Or perhaps Love himself, not permitting any one to be crowned in
opposition to, or to be proclaimed as victor over himself, takes their
crowns from these men, and gives the perception of this to others,
indicating that these men are subdued by him: on which account all
the rest say that these men are in love. Or is it because that cannot
be loosed which has never been bound, but love is the chain of some
who wear crowns, (for no one else who is bound is more anxious about
being crowned than a lover,) that men consider that the loosing of the
garland is a sign of love, and therefore say that these men are in
love? Or is it because very often lovers, when they have been crowned,
often out of agitation as it should seem, allow their crowns to fall to
pieces, and so we argue backwards, and attribute this passion to all
whom we see in this predicament; thinking that their crown never would
have come to pieces, if they had not been in love? Or is it because
these loosings happen only in the case of men bound or men in love; and
so, men thinking that the loosing of the garland is the loosing also
of those who are bound, consider that such men are in love? For those
in love are bound, unless you would rather say that, because those who
are in love are crowned with love, therefore their crown is not of a
lasting kind; for it is difficult to put a small and ordinary kind of
crown on a large and divine one. Men also crown the doors of the houses
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