Helen in her old age, looking at herself in a mirror, is a subject
which old sonneteers were fond of borrowing from the Greek Anthology.
Young Ladies! you who have sate to Sir Thomas, or any artist of his
school, I will tell you how your portraits may be rendered more useful
monitors to you in your progress through life than the mirror was to
Helen, and how you may derive more satisfaction from them when you are
grown old. Without supposing that you actually “called up a look,” for
the painter's use, I may be certain that none of you during the times
of sitting permitted any feeling of ill humour to cast a shade over
your countenance; and that if you were not conscious of endeavouring
to put on your best looks for the occasion, the painter was desirous
of catching them, and would catch the best he could. The most
thoughtless of you need not be told that you cannot retain the charms
of youthful beauty; but you may retain the charm of an amiable
expression through life: Never allow yourselves to be seen with a
worse than you wore for the painter! Whenever you feel ill-tempered,
remember that you look ugly; and be assured that every emotion of
fretfulness, of ill-humour, of anger, of irritability, of impatience,
of pride, haughtiness, envy, or malice, any unkind, any uncharitable,
any ungenerous feeling, lessens the likeness to your picture, and not
only deforms you while it lasts, but leaves its trace behind; for the
effect of the passions upon the face is more rapid and more certain
than that of time.
“His counsel,” says Gwillim the Pursuivant, “was very behoveful, who
advised all gentlewomen often to look on glasses, that so, if they saw
themselves beautiful, they might be stirred up to make their minds as
fair by virtue as their faces were by nature; but if deformed, they
might make amends for their outward deformity, with their intern
pulchritude and gracious qualities. And those that are proud of their
beauty should consider that their own hue is as brittle as the glass
wherein they see it; and that they carry on their shoulders nothing
but a skull wrapt in skin which one day will be loathsome to be looked
on.”
The conclusion of this passage accorded not with the Doctor's
feelings. He thought that whatever tended to connect frightful and
loathsome associations with the solemn and wholesome contemplation of
mortality, ought to be avoided as injudicious and injurious. So too
with regard to age: if it is dark and unlovely “the fault,” he used to
say, “is generally our own; Nature may indeed make it an object of
compassion, but not of dislike, unless we ourselves render it so. It
is not of necessity that we grow ugly as well as old.” Donne says
No spring, nor summer's beauty hath such grace
As I have seen in one autumnal face;
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