In the Dutch village of Broek, concerning which singular as the habits
of the inhabitants are, travellers have related more peculiarities
than ever prevailed there, one remarkable custom shows with how
serious a mind some of the Hollanders regard marriage. The great house
door is never opened but when the Master of the House brings home his
Bride from the altar, and when Husband and Wife are borne out to the
grave. Dr. Dove had seen that village of great Baby-houses, but though
much attached to Holland, and to the Dutch as a people, and disposed
to think that we might learn many useful lessons from our prudent and
thrifty neighbours, he thought this to be as preposterous, if not as
shocking a custom, as it would be to have the bell toll at a marriage,
and to wear a winding sheet for a wedding garment.
We look with wonder at the transformations that take place in insects,
and yet their physical metamorphoses are not greater than the changes
which we ourselves undergo morally and intellectually, both in our
relations to others and in our individual nature. “_Chaque individu,
considéré separément, differe encore de lui même par l'effet du tems;
il devient un autre, en quelque maniere, aux diverses epoques de sa
vie. L'enfant, l'homme fait, le viellard, sont comme autant
d'etrangers unis dans une seule personne par le lien mysterieux du
souvenir._”[2] Of all changes in life marriage is certainly the
greatest, and though less change in every respect can very rarely be
produced by it in any persons than in the Doctor and his wife, it was
very great to both. On his part it was altogether an increase of
happiness; or rather from having been contented in his station he
became happy in it, so happy as to be experimentally convinced that
there can be no “single blessedness” for man. There were some
drawbacks on her part,—in the removal from a quiet vicarage to a busy
street; in the obstacle which four miles opposed to that daily and
intimate intercourse with her friends at the Grange which had been the
chief delight of her maiden life; and above all in the separation from
her father, for even at a distance which may appear so inconsiderable,
such it was; but there was the consolatory reflection that those dear
friends and that dear father concurred in approving her marriage, and
in rejoicing in it for her sake; and the experience of every day and
every year made her more and more thankful for her lot. In the full
liturgic sense of the word, he worshipped her, that is, he loved, and
cherished, and respected, and honoured her; and she would have obeyed
him cheerfully as well as dutifully, if obedience could have been
shown where there was ever but one will.
[Footnote 2: NECKER.]
CHAPTER CLII.
ODD OPINIONS CONCERNING BIOGRAPHY AND EDUCATION. THE AUTHOR MAKES A
SECOND HIATUS AS UNWILLINGLY AS HE MADE THE FIRST, AND FOR THE SAME
COGENT REASON.
_Ya sabes—pero es forzoso
Repetirlo, aunque lo sepas._
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