The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and ReminiscencesRandolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
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The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and Reminiscences
Randolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
Jefferson, Thomas, 1743-1826; Presidents -- United States -- Biography
Jefferson's health was not good during the spring of the year 1790,
and although he remained at his post he was incapacitated for
business during the whole of the month of May. He was frequently
prostrated from the effects of severe headaches, which sometimes
lasted for two or three days. His health was not re-established
before July.
I give now his letters home, which were written to his daughters.
Mrs. Randolph was living at Monticello, and Maria, or "little Poll,"
now not quite twelve years old, was at Eppington on a visit to her
good Aunt Eppes. These letters give an admirable picture of Jefferson
as the father, and betray an almost motherly tenderness of love for,
and watchfulness over, his daughters. Martha, though a married woman,
is warned of the difficulties and little cares of her new situation
in life, and receives timely advice as to how to steer clear of them;
while little Maria is urged to prosecute her studies, to be good and
industrious, in terms so full of love as to make his fatherly advice
almost irresistible. The letters show, too, his longing for home,
and how eagerly he craved the small news, as well as the great, of
the loved ones he had left behind in Virginia. I give sometimes an
extract, instead of the whole letter.
_To Martha Jefferson Randolph._--[_Extract._]
New York, April 4th, 1790.
I am anxious to hear from you of your health, your occupations,
where you are, etc. Do not neglect your music. It will be a
companion which will sweeten many hours of life to you. I
assure you mine here is triste enough. Having had yourself and
dear Poll to live with me so long, to exercise my affections
and cheer me in the intervals of business, I feel heavily the
separation from you. It is a circumstance of consolation to know
that you are happier, and to see a prospect of its continuance
in the prudence and even temper of Mr. Randolph and yourself.
Your new condition will call for abundance of little sacrifices.
But they will be greatly overpaid by the measure of affection
they secure to you. The happiness of your life now depends on
the continuing to please a single person. To this all other
objects must be secondary, even your love for me, were it
possible that could ever be an obstacle. But this it never can
be. Neither of you can ever have a more faithful friend than
myself, nor one on whom you can count for more sacrifices.
My own is become a secondary object to the happiness of you
both. Cherish, then, for me, my dear child, the affection of
your husband, and continue to love me as you have done, and to
render my life a blessing by the prospect it may hold up to me
of seeing you happy. Kiss Maria for me if she is with you, and
present me cordially to Mr. Randolph; assuring yourself of the
constant and unchangeable love of yours, affectionately,
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